by Pastor John Kim
The most recent book by Alexander Strauch titled, “Love or Die” is a very serious and challenging work that needs to be read by anyone who loves the church. The rebuke of the Ephesian church in Revelation 2 by Christ is one that every church needs to take seriously because hard work, perseverance, and even doctrinal purity are no guarantee for success in God’s eyes. What God is looking for is a heart that truly loves Him as well as loves others as Matthew 22:37-40 calls us to in what is known as the Great Commandment.
I have long feared that the day would come where our love would grow cold and it seems to be creeping into our church as the level of selfish ambition and empty conceit continue to rise in various forms. It breaks my heart to hear of the slander and gossip that takes place, the absolute refusal to apply the Peacemaker Pledge in dealing with conflict, and the lack of compassion that some have for others that don’t seem to please them for one reason or another. I have realized that even as I have been reading the Old Testament record of the nation of Israel found in the Pentateuch that though they were privileged to have seen incredible signs and wonders by God, were delivered from slavery in Egypt, saw God part the Red Sea and destroy Pharoah’s army, were fed with manna from heaven and all you can eat quail buffet line, had water drawn from rocks, it still was never enough to keep them from complaining and seeking to rebel against God’s leadership. While we might think we could do better, I don’t think so. Even with all God’s blessings given to us, His grace and mercy being poured out through the cross of Christ, His mercies being made new every morning, people who claim to be Christians still have the audacity to hate their brother or sister. I think that’s why the title “Love or Die” is very appropriate to consider. If we do not love the way God calls us to love, the church will die. Relationships will die. Pastors will die. Church member will die. It is a serious matter and I hope that everyone at Lighthouse will take the Passion statement serious – to love God and people. It’s not enough to make it a nice slogan. It’s not just something to recite at members meetings. It is the heart and soul of our Mission and Vision, for without true and genuine love for God and people, the mission will fail and the vision will fade.
It is the prayer of my heart that the members of our church will grow in their love, that it may abound more and more in real knowledge and all discernment so that we might approve the things that are excellent before God. We must help each other, for we are all incapable of doing it on our own. It truly is a team effort and I pray that we will be united in our love for God and people.
As it is our 10 year anniversary this year, let’s make it our goal to really ask if we believe in our MVP statement and will we actually live it out? This coming Sunday we will talk about our Mission and Vision and I hope that you are ready!
In His grace,
Pastor John
thank you for the post.
it sums up some of the things i was thinking about as i meditate on what Paul meant when he said he served God with a clear conscience and how that applies to my service. it also keeps me seeing my need to pray for lighthouse, not just miss it.
(p.s. typo in title…)
Thanks for the exhortation. It’s challenging to think that our small decisions to not show love, to even be passive in it, can lead to the slow but sure death of so many things that bring glory to God.
Is the Love or Die book an elaboration of the chapter 2 of Leading with Love??
David — Love or Die does expand on the theme of chapter 2 of Leading with Love. In addition, much of the book is a discussion of practical ways to “stir up” or “cultivate” love by studying love, praying for love, teaching love, guarding love, modeling love and practicing love.