@LBC (5/6/2015)

by David Zhang

Sermons

How Long Oh Lord by Patrick Cho (Psalms 19:1-14)

  • This past week’s Sunday sermon is about suffering. Come check out the 10 reasons God sovereignly appoints suffering in the lives of believers!

3 Perspectives of the Christian Life by Joseph Ho (2 Corinthians 5:1-10)

  • Single life is going through the series on 2 Corinthians. Come check out the 3 eternal perspectives of the Christian life!

Special Feature

The first three sessions from the series “Personal Purity in an Internet Age” are up.

Debunking the Myth of Non-Verbal Evangelism (Part 2)

by Pastor James Lee

In Part 1, I began my broader argument that we need to debunk the popularized idea that one can evangelize without verbal proclamation, perpetuated by a popular quote, that has been falsely attributed to St. Francis Assisi, which says, “Preach the Gospel at all times, and if necessary, use words.” Not really. Actually, just, “No!” There is no “if.” It is always necessary!

Why is that saying so popular? And why do most believers in this country don’t really bat an eye? Perhaps because it subtly tickles ears and attempts to absolve folks of their evangelistic responsibility. Because when theology takes a back seat to methodology, and we drink the contemporary Kool-Aid of wanting to be liked, we’re going to find some sanitized way to justify our non-evangelism. It sounds faithful, sounds virtuous, but it’s anything but that… even though I think many do mean well and do care for the lost. But the idea we can evangelize without actually speaking the truth in love is unbiblical. And that ultimately is the ground and authority for which we must appeal and submit. Unfortunately, the most common proof-text for the myth of non-verbal proclamation is a text and context…that teaches the polar opposite. Our dearest Lord Jesus, authoritatively declares in Matthew 5:16, “In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.”

1. We don’t fail to shine because of darkness; we fail to shine because we refuse to shine!

The world’s darkness has no bearing on our shining or not, except to be the backdrop for which the gospel shines brighter. When Jesus spoke of the obvious visibility of light and the obvious impossibility of a true Christian’s not shining, He was giving description to the natural outcome of a true kingdom citizen in the context of the Sermon on the Mount. True believers, blessed because they’ve been enabled to be poor in spirit, to mourn over their sin, to hunger and thirst for righteousness, are a bright city sovereignly set upon a hill. True believers shine! Therefore, He said, don’t put your light under a basket, but on a lamp-stand! Be noticed for Christ! If we’re not seeking to evangelize the world around us, it’s not because of the world, or our church, or our pastor, and it’s certainly not because of God, it’s only because of us. The problem isn’t outside us, the problem is in us. Like Ananias and Sapphira, sometimes are we good at lying to the Holy Spirit? Because our Lord Jesus emphatically states that we alone, we His people, not anyone else, are, by His grace and blessing, the light of the world. We’re declared, to be already, by virtue of the new creation reality, the light of the world. If we’re true Christians, we’re automatically light, automatically shining, because of the work and life of Christ in us. So the only way for us not to shine, is if we actively, intentionally, violently fight against and refuse to be what we already are. The only way for Christians not to shine is when they attempt to cover or hide or extinguish what God has done and is doing, expressly so that they’re not noticed. Why? There are at least 2 possible reasons. First, at a given moment, we’re ashamed of the gospel. Simon Peter did that, I have done that, the rooster has crowed for many a true believer. Apostle Paul, decades later again admonished Peter to his face for being ashamed. There are sins of commission and of omission, but sin is sin. Yet, for a true believer, it’s only temporary, not habitual, not ultimate. The good news is that Jesus was the full propitiation for our sins of non-evangelism. Jesus prayed for Peter. Jesus prophesied that Peter would later strengthen the brethren, despite Peter’s prophesied failure. And it was at Pentecost, that Peter, emptied of his proud self-confidence, preached boldly in the power of the Holy Spirit!

On the other hand, it is also a possibility that we’re pre-committed to non-evangelism because we’re simply not light in the first place. We’re not true believers. Please don’t misunderstand, and let me clarify strongly, that we’re not saved by the work of evangelism! We’re saved by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone! But if the desire to see people saved is not resident, it would benefit such a soul to ponder why a natural byproduct of saving faith hasn’t yet sprouted in one’s life and become a reality, regardless of how hard it may be? If there is no power to do so, then perhaps it’s because God’s Spirit is not in one to do so. You see, a pre-commitment to non-evangelism, being functionally content with that disobedience, is a scary condition for a professing believer to be in. Actively and habitually resisting the Holy Spirit is not a minor thing, regardless of how “respectable” a sin it has become in American evangelicalism. None of this is meant to condemn anyone, but to say that there is a much deeper problem and concern than an avoidance of evangelism… that one needs to be gripped by grace, given new affections, adoption, salvation, which is of far greater priority than one’s non-evangelism. It isn’t because non-evangelism will send you to hell, but because non-evangelism might be a sign that you’re not actually going to heaven. So the deeper issue is not whether you share your faith or not, but whether you have true faith. Matt 10:32-33 says, “Therefore everyone who confesses Me before men, I will also confess him before My Father who is in heaven. But whoever denies Me before men, I will also deny him before My Father who is in heaven.”

Jesus Himself gave His people a loving command. It’s our Savior’s demand, a divine order, a clear imperative, a most personal issue for those who are so loved by Him. When Jesus said, “Let your light shine” in v.16, in Greek, it’s an aorist imperative. A present imperative is a command to do something continually, keep doing it, but an aorist imperative speaks of a task expected to be completed and continues to be so. Jesus gave the command with the full, unqualified expectation we’ll trust and obey. In fact, He’s the One, who only a few verses earlier (v.10-12), promised we’ll be persecuted. Often, we hear reports of Christians being arrested and tortured for preaching the Gospel in other parts of the world, so we naturally fear for own safety. I know history and recent history, it’s very possible, and in many ways I believe…inevitable. Thus, we should get ready, rather than get scared. It happened to our Lord, and He said it will happen to us. But even when Jesus was warning His followers of the dangers they would endure for His name’s sake, He didn’t excuse them from evangelizing for the sake of safety, did He? Rather the opposite. He charged them that the “Gospel must first be preached to all the nations.” And He was addressing people who had only recently come to believe. He said to them, whether you’ve been a Christian one minute or one decade, you’re salt and light, you’re My witnesses to the ends of the earth, you proclaim the Gospel, because you’re the only people in the world enabled to do it and called to do it. And the Lord doesn’t command us to do anything that He doesn’t expect us to obey and enable us to obey.

Evangelism is one of the most neglected public duties and delights in the Christian life. Can you and I testify to sharing the faith with the lost? That’s our mission in this world. That’s certainly, not the only thing, as we engage in many facets of following Christ in the everyday, but it’s a main thing. It’s a main thing that at some level, informs and gives holy purpose to everything else…raising our children, working at the office, moving into a neighborhood. You and I devote all kinds of time and energy to earn degrees, pass exams, and train ourselves physically, for comparatively trivial matters. What are you and I doing to equip ourselves for the work of the kingdom in gospel proclamation? If given an opportunity now, could we articulate the truths of the gospel, even in the most raw and nervous way? And if one couldn’t, would it be reasonable to say, that one hasn’t been faithful in proclaiming the good news? It doesn’t mean we don’t know the gospel or don’t believe the gospel, and it might be we just need lots of encouragement as we continue to grow … but are we aiming towards faithfulness in that cause? Are you and I sharing the gospel these days, or are we riding the coattails of some nostalgic yesteryear? Will anyone accuse us of proselytizing in the last month, last year, ever? Do we know who our neighbors are, and do they know us? Are we content to have only minimal interaction with coworkers? We should all be willing to be accountable in evangelism and helping one another in it. Which is more dangerous? Sin that occurred, or sin that is ignored? The latter is depravity, but the former is depraved. There are no excuses, none. I’ve claimed them all, I’ve heard them all. Well, a person might say God is sovereign, so He’ll send someone else. Maybe? Perhaps? Maybe not? Perhaps not? But it’s still disobedience. You might be the only viable witness to ever show up in a lost soul’s life. I can tell you that’s so often true. Most people I share the gospel with have either never heard the gospel at all before, or they’ve never really heard an adequate presentation of the gospel. Regardless, He calls and sends us all. Are we passionate about reaching the lost, passionate about His Church, passionate about God and His Word? All those go together. We can all agree that Jesus is passionate about them. Do we have the deep conviction that our lives must be about the Lord’s work in saving souls, in the midst of the many other things you and I have to do? Most of us just need to be reminded who we are, why we’re here, and what we’re supposed to do, because we forget. We’re aliens, strangers, this isn’t our home, making disciples is our real business. Let’s shine!

2. It is not good works that save, but the good news that saves!

Good deeds never saved anybody; it saved nobody. If you could never be saved by your good works, then why in the world do so many believers get hoodwinked into thinking that our good works, in and of themselves, will save other people? I’ve observed that’s functionally what many believers and many churches think. Protestants shouldn’t be reinstating indulgences by earning salvation for others by their own good deeds. Salvation is by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone. Anything else is confusing and distorting the matter. It’s bad theology. Yet, we got all kinds of good works being done outside the actual proclamation of the gospel being called evangelism, and people will say that feeding the orphans in Haiti is evangelism, or tutoring children in the slums is evangelism. It’s not! Look, there might be evangelism happening there. And let’s encourage opportunities to serve in those causes, but feeding orphans and tutoring children is not evangelism, in and of themselves. It might be and should be a platform or opportunity to share the gospel, but if there is no gospel message being shared, it’s not evangelism. There are Christians and even pastors that will take Matthew 5:16 and say, if they see our good works, then how will they believe Jesus because of that?! If they do believe, our good works might be part of their taking notice of the message, but the good works aren’t the message! Apart from the gospel, the only thing we can teach is moralism, to be a good boy or girl, live by the golden rule, such that at best in regards to salvation all we can offer them is works-based righteousness. Apart from the gospel content and truth, if all I had was good works, I’d have hell. If all I gave was my good works, they’d have hell. That has consequences! There are lazy pastors and lazy believers who perpetuate these falsehoods, primarily at the expense of those who need the gospel the most. Let me suggest, as we’ll eventually get to it, that one main reason this happens is not because Christians are totally ignorant of Scripture, but it’s because many times they’re ashamed of the message, and it’s easier to do something selectively good, to salve a guilty conscience, than to actually obey the Lord.

If hypothetically our good works bring people to salvation, then surely the Mormons and the Buddhists and our non-believing friends who serve the 3rd world through the Peace Corps or donate blood at the local ballpark, must be saving people too. No, that is not the case. We can’t say that, and we should not say that. Why? Because in order to be saved, the gospel message has to be preached. How in the world is one supposed to be saved, if one doesn’t know one needs to be saved, if one doesn’t know how to be saved, whom to be saved from, and by whom to be saved? That He lived, was crucified, raised, that He was a vicarious substitutionary atonement, a propitiation, bringing redemption, that it manifests in genuine repentance, that we’re forgiven by faith alone, not by works? When v.16 ends with the purpose clause, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven, what is that saying? It’s saying that we’re a means, for shining the light. What is the light? It’s the light of the gospel in the face of Jesus Christ (2 Cor 4)! So can people know the good news only through our good works? No. Can someone know the message of the gospel in only my giving them a plate of hot food on a cold day? They might experience love, but they won’t know the message. Romans 10:14-17 declares, “How then will they call on Him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in Him whom they have not heard? And how will they hear without a preacher? How will they preach unless they are sent? Just as it is written, “HOW BEAUTIFUL ARE THE FEET OF THOSE WHO BRING GOOD NEWS OF GOOD THINGS!” However, they did not all heed the good news; for Isaiah says, “LORD, WHO HAS BELIEVED OUR REPORT?” So faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.” In other words, no one comes to salvation apart from the preaching of…the message! Do you know that if no one ever spoke or verbalized the gospel message, there’d be no church anywhere, and everywhere, and we would remain unsaved?

Penn Jillette (of Penn & Teller), even in his continuing unbelief recognizes that. He said he could respect the Christian who evangelizes because they actually believe the message about salvation, that they’re loving enough to share with others. He said those who don’t evangelize either don’t really believe the gospel or they’re too selfish to care about other souls. So when people are saved and glorify God because of our good works, it assumes that there has been a verbal proclamation of the gospel, because people don’t get saved any other way. How would they even know who the Father is, unless we told them who the loving Father is? From a word study on all the occurrences of where God was “glorified” (32x) in the Bible, along with “glorify”, “glorifies”, none of them speak of non-believers who glorify God. Do non-believers praise and worship God? No, or as I’d rather say… not yet. Why? Because, it’s a problem of depravity and spiritual deadness (Ephesians 2:1-4). The idea of good works saving people is akin to the pagan idea that the problem is the environment, not the heart. When Hamlet rebuffed Ophelia, “Get thee to a nunnery. Why wouldst thou be a breeder of sinners? I am myself indifferent honest, but yet I could accuse me of such things that it were better my mother had not borne me,” he was saying, “I’m the good guy in this play, but even I’m so terribly wicked inside, that you better not marry me, or we’ll just breed more sinners. Therefore, the only way to get rid of sin in the world is for all women to become nuns.” Jer 13:23 “Can the Ethiopian change his skin or the leopard his spots? Then you also can do good who are accustomed to doing evil.” Rom 3:10-11 “THERE IS NONE RIGHTEOUS, NOT EVEN ONE; THERE IS NONE WHO UNDERSTANDS, THERE IS NONE WHO SEEKS FOR GOD.” Rom 8:7 “Because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so.” It like trying to get cable TV without a TV. If you and I wanted to stop sinning naturally, we just couldn’t. If I gave you $10 million to stop talking, it would be difficult, but possible. But if I gave you $10 million to stop thinking, you couldn’t do it. Clint Archer says, “When you evangelize, you don’t try to appeal to the person’s reason alone. Proof alone will never convince anyone. It is God’s power that will make them believe. When someone comes to Christ, we give God all the glory. We don’t congratulate them on making the right choice, we glorify God for changing their mind and heart. We can make this world better by education, police, and democracy. But we cannot make people better. Only the gospel can do that.”

Be encouraged to shine! The problem is not the message, never the message, but the problem is the nature of the one who hears the message. Yes, sometimes, the problem is the messenger, but the problem is never the message. Do not change or alter or adjust or subtract from or add to…or hide the message. The problem is never the message. It is not the power of you or I, but it is the power of God, to save everyone who would believe the message. I hope next time in Part 3, we would be further encouraged and emboldened to herald the good news. The Lord loves us so!

Weekly Links (5/4/2015)

“It is not possible to build a culture around a denial of God-given standards, and then arbitrarily reintroduce those standards at your convenience, whenever you need a word like evil to describe what has just happened. Those words cannot just be whistled up from the place where we exiled them. If we have banished them, and their definitions, and every possible support for them, we need to reckon with the fact that they are now gone.” (Douglas Wilson, Rules for Reformers).

by Stephen Rodgers

Since my traditional day for posting new resources fell on the first of the month, we delayed this over the weekend to give the various blogs and websites time to catch up and deploy their offerings. So here we go…

  • The free book from christianaudio.com this month is Randy Singer’s The Advocate, a work of historical fiction. I don’t know much about it beyond that (apparently it was an ECPA finalist?), but it’s available if you’re interested.
  • Logos.com’s free offering this month is NT Wright’s The Lord and His Prayer. I’m not personally familiar with that book either, although I know this one of his earlier works prior to his NPP views becoming such a lightning rod.
  • A new issue of Ligonier’s Tabletalk is out, and this month the topic is “Doctrine for All of Life.”
  • For those who are interested, Themelios 40.1 is now available as well, with the usual slew of articles, especially book reviews. DA Carson’s editorial looks especially interesting.
  • Addionally, the first new issue of JBMW (20.1) in nearly a year is out. Considering how traditional Christian views on sex, gender, and marriage are under attack in the United States right now, this promises to be interesting.
  • The new issue of CCEF’s counseling journal is also out. They seem to have changed their monetization strategy yet again; the new schema is that one article is free, and then “preview” versions (aka “the first third”) of each other article is also available for free. Anyhow, the free full article this month is by Powlison, so if nothing else, you might want to pick that up.
  • Crossway is making the Global Study Bible available for free on a variety of platforms and in a variety of formats.
  • And last but not least, it looks like Ligonier is branching out onto Youtube. They’re starting to upload some of RC Sproul’s teaching series for free: Chosen by God, The Holiness of God, and What is Reformed Theology.

That’s it for now.

Pro Rege

All The House Of Israel Are Impudent And Hardhearted

by Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Ezekiel 3:7

Are there no exceptions? No, not one. Even the favoured race are thus described. Are the best so bad?-then what must the worst be? Come, my heart, consider how far thou hast a share in this universal accusation, and while considering, be ready to take shame unto thyself herein thou mayst have been guilty.

The first charge is impudence, or hardness of forehead, a want of holy shame, an unhallowed boldness in evil. Before my conversion, I could sin and feel no compunction, hear of my guilt and yet remain unhumbled, and even confess my iniquity and manifest no inward humiliation on account of it. For a sinner to go to God’s house and pretend to pray to Him and praise Him argues a brazen-facedness of the worst kind! Alas! since the day of my new birth I have doubted my Lord to His face, murmured unblushingly in His presence, worshipped before Him in a slovenly manner, and sinned without bewailing myself concerning it. If my forehead were not as an adamant, harder than flint, I should have far more holy fear, and a far deeper contrition of spirit. Woe is me, I am one of the impudent house of Israel.

The second charge is hardheartedness, and I must not venture to plead innocent here. Once I had nothing but a heart of stone, and although through grace I now have a new and fleshy heart, much of my former obduracy remains. I am not affected by the death of Jesus as I ought to be; neither am I moved by the ruin of my fellow men, the wickedness of the times, the chastisement of my heavenly Father, and my own failures, as I should be. O that my heart would melt at the recital of my Saviour’s sufferings and death. Would to God I were rid of this nether millstone within me, this hateful body of death. Blessed be the name of the Lord, the disease is not incurable, the Saviour’s precious blood is the universal solvent, and me, even me, it will effectually soften, till my heart melts as wax before the fire.

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LBC Semi-Occasional SPARK – April 30, 2015

Dear Lighthouse family and friends!

I hope you are doing well and walking in the Lord! It’s a busy season for the church and there’s lots to be aware of, so please take some time to read through the announcements below. What a joy it is to serve the Lord together and to walk with one another in the faith! Please especially look at the prayer needs at the bottom and lift up those needs in prayer (1 Cor. 12:26).

In His grace,

Pastor Patrick

Here are this week’s ministry opportunities:

  1. Midweek Fellowships. Grace Life and Lighthouse Kids’ Club meet tonight at 6:30 pm at the church. College Life and Lumos Youth will be meeting on Friday at 7:00 pm. Come out for a wonderful time of fellowship and fun!
  2. UPAC Spirituality and Mental Health Panel. This Friday, May 1, from 1-3 pm, the Union of Pan-Asian Communities (UPAC) will be having a panel discussion about faith and mental health. Pastor Patrick will be representing the biblical worldview on this panel. If you are interested in coming out, it will be at the Multicultural Store Front, City of San Diego Police, 5348 University Ave, Suite 100, San Diego, CA, 92105.
  3. Banquet. Our annual anniversary banquet will be this Saturday, May 2, at 5 pm, at the church. Come out to celebrate another year of God’s faithfulness to Lighthouse San Diego! The dress is semi-formal.
  4. Communion. We’ll be taking communion this Sunday during our morning service, so please come with your hearts prepared for that time.
  5. Men’s Purity Seminar. The men will be meeting on Sunday evening, May 3, for part 3 of our purity seminar entitled, “Personal Purity in an Internet Age.” This weekend, we will be looking at the devastating consequences of sexual sin.
  6. Monday Night Volleyball. Don’t forget that Monday Night Volleyball has started up again! We meet at La Jolla Shores (north side by the volleyball courts) on Mondays at about 5 pm. Come out for some fun at the beach!
  7. Mission Bowl. The ladies will be having their Mission Bowl tournament on Saturday, May 9, all day at Hourglass Community Park. We’ll be having a pep rally at the church on Friday, May 8, at 6:30 pm, to cheer on our teams!
  8. Graduations. On May 8, at 6:30 pm, at College of the Canyons, Randy Sarmiento will be graduating from The Master’s College with his Master of Arts in Biblical Counseling (MABC). On May 10, at 6 pm, at Grace Community Church, Roger Alcaraz will be graduating from The Master’s Seminary with his Master of Divinity. If you are interested in attending the graduation for Randy Sarmiento, please contact him directly. If you would like to attend the ceremony for Roger Alcaraz, we will also be having a small reception immediately following at Grace Community Church.
  9. Vacation Bible School. If you want to volunteer to help out with our VBS this summer, please contact Josh Liu as soon as possible. This is one of the great highlights of our year and a really special time for our kids! It’s also a really wonderful opportunity for our kids to hear about the grace of God in the gospel. Let’s work together to make it awesome! The dates for VBS are June 22-26.
  10. Czech Republic Mission. We will be sending out a team to the Czech Republic this summer from July 1-18. More information about the Czech team will be available this weekend. Please be prayer for our team and for the work the Lord will have them do!

Marriage Check Up: Session 6

by Matt Zhang

In GraceLife, we recently discussed Chapter 8, titled “Resolving Conflict,” from Wayne Mack’s Preparing for Marriage God’s Way. As members of Lighthouse, we know that our church takes conflict resolution, AKA peacemaking, very seriously. However, this is not just because of potential division or strife that may arise in the church. Our church takes conflict resolution seriously because God does: “If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men” (Rom. 12:18). In order to have a God honoring relationship between two sinners, peacemaking must be a priority. Since marriage is the closest relationship possible between a man and a woman, a God glorifying marriage is not possible without peacemaking.

Since conflict resolution is vital to a healthy marriage, Pastor Patrick went over the 4 G’s in the context of marriage in GraceLife. For those of you unfamiliar with the 4 G’s, they are a mnemonic device for the following statements that are a helpful and practical guide to peacemaking:

  1. Glorify God
  2. Get the log out of your own eye
  3. Gently restore
  4. Go and be reconciled.

Working through the 4 G’s when personal conflicts arise has been an extremely helpful tool for me. It outlines the path of peacemaking, keeping me on track when my sinful heart attempts to lead me down the destructive path of arguing, self-pity, frustration, and bitterness. From first hand experience, I have seen that the latter path often leaves a couple feeling distant, resentful and hurt. In order to avoid this, there are two important themes that we must keep in mind during the peacemaking process.

The single most important aspect of the peacemaking process must be to glorify God. It allows us to have the right perspective when conflicts arise and it is the foundation for the other three G’s. Disagreements turn into conflicts when our greatest desire is not to honor and please God, but to be right. A good question to ask ourselves in order to steer our hearts in the direction of glorifying God is: Do I care more about being right than doing what God says is right? Sin, such as our pride, often blinds us from seeing our faults and causes us to only focus on how much we’ve been wronged. It is only when we prayerfully seek God’s help to put off our pride and to put on humility that the situation can cease to be about ourselves and our glory, and begin to rightfully be about God and glorifying Him in the midst of conflict. Glorifying Him should be our greatest desire, not winning the argument.

Secondly, both confrontation and reconciliation in peacemaking should be done with and out of love for our wives. When we confront one another about sin, it must be done in a loving and gracious manner so that it may lead to repentance and restoration (Gal. 6:1). Husbands, we are specifically called to love our wives as Christ loved the church (Eph 5:25-27). Christ gave Himself up for the church so that He might sanctify her. In the same way, we should lovingly and graciously pursue sanctification with our wives by seeking to gently restore them in the midst of conflict. There are many ways we can do this for our wives: through our tone, choice of words, remembering to affirm and encourage her, and even considering the best timing to confront her. Confronting our wives should be done out of love for wives as we seek to pursue their sanctification. Our love for our wives should also cause us to pursue reconciliation. God pursued reconciliation with us by sending His Son to die on the cross because of His great love for us. The reconciliation to God we have received through the work of Christ should cause us to seek to be at peace with all men, especially the woman you’re married to. Through reconciliation, a marriage relationship can be restored and even made stronger than before.

It is only through our love for God which compels us to glorify Him, as well as our love for one another, that we can pursue the peacemaking that is necessary in a marriage relationship. It makes sense that loving God and his people are the greatest commandments for Christians (Matt. 22:37-40). If we are struggling to resolve conflict in our marriage or any relationship, we must examine whether we are obeying God’s greatest commandment, as it is the foundation of peacemaking. It is only then that a married couple can be the team God has called us to be and spur one another on to grow in faith and holiness. Whether we are married or not, let us seek to love God and love people in all things, including peacemaking.

What Starts Here Changes the World

by Pastor John Kim

On May 17, 2014, Naval Admiral William H. McRaven gave a commencement speech at the University of Texas that was inspirational and challenging. As he introduced himself, he recalled how he had no memory of the commencement speaker at his graduation so he promised to keep his speech short.

But in the short speech, titled “What Starts Here Changes the World,” he gave some thoughts that from a practical standpoint especially highlighted the reality of life and how to respond to hardship. The training he had received to become a Navy SEAL particularly addressed the resolve a person needs to have to face adversity and not give up. Toward the end of his speech, McRaven shared these words:

Start each day with a task completed.
Find someone to help you through life.
Respect everyone.
Know that life is not fair and that you will fail often, but if you take some risks, step up when the times are toughest, face down the bullies, lift up the downtrodden and never, ever give up – if you do these things, the next generation and the generations that follow will live in a world far better than the one we have today and – what started here will indeed have changed the world – for the better.

When I hear words like these, I am often inspired, at least for a moment. The reality of life then sets in and I will echo what I think the majority will feel – inspirational words are fleeting and the injustice and bullies of the world seem to always win out. And since I am a Christian, I can’t retaliate and just have to take it lying down. On my own power, I feel completely overwhelmed, especially by how cruel some people can be, completely heartless in their desire to crush a person’s heart and soul. Left to myself, all the inspirational thoughts don’t even begin to help and if anything, I am left wallowing in freakish misery or the cold desire for vengeance starts to creep into my mind. Either way, I am not in a good place and feel like giving up.

The reality truly is that life is not fair. We will fail often. We do need to take some risks and step up in the tough times. We need to bow to the bullies and we need to lift up the downtrodden. We need to persevere and not give up. But the question is how can we do all these things when it really is impossible to do these things on our own power?

Martyn Lloyd-Jones in his book Spiritual Depression gives a helpful framework to consider as we think through the dynamics of how we deal with life issues. How we think shapes the affections of our heart so that we exercise the choices of the will based on what we value. This simple process has really helped me to see how my thinking really does shape what my heart values. If I allow my thoughts to be preoccupied with discouragement, fear, anger, vengeance, bitterness, resentment, discontentment, there should be no surprise that my heart affections are then being given over to responses that reflect such a source. My actions will then be guided by these thoughts and affections, so ultimately the decisions I make in how I respond to life’s challenges will reflect my mind and my heart. What I do is not out of the blue. Everything I do is the result of what I have been thinking and treasuring in my mind and my heart.

Why is it important to identify this? The times that we are severely tested, especially with relational conflicts, are the very opportunities that reveal what we really believe and what we really have as convictions. I remember one of my professors from seminary talking about how many say they have a conviction about being faithful in marriage but by pursuing a divorce they reveal that they really did not have such a conviction.

I cannot say that I am anywhere close to perfect regarding these issues but I can say that the times when it has been the hardest, I have had to really consider carefully what I would do, especially in response to being criticized, accused, slandered, and misrepresented. While I obviously do not enjoy such experiences, the realities of life are such that what the naval admiral said is true, and God’s Word has already said it would be so and we should not be surprised.

But if there is one thing that I am reminded, it is that fact that these tests and trials are not just a time to struggle, they are opportunities to change the world. We know that we are called to a mission – to make disciples of Christ (Matt. 28:18-20) and this mission will not go unchallenged. There is an enemy out there that seeks to discourage, distract, and even destroy the work that we are called to do. We should expect such attacks to come from unexpected sources, even from within the church. While there can be some struggle in how we respond, the opportunity to persevere and carry on the mission echoes of the kind of battlefield experiences that the military faces – you cannot expect to enter the battleground and think that all will go smoothly and without surprises.

Our vision – to plant churches (Acts 1:8) – helps give us a long term view as to what we are hoping to see happen through the churches that God has so graciously planted. We are not here just for our generation alone. We are here to pass on the greatness of God to the next generation and we cannot afford to be satisfied with just enjoying the blessing for ourselves. This is exactly why the nation of Israel eventually turned away from God. The prosperity that they enjoyed in the Promised Land ended up becoming the very idol that led them away from the one who had rescued them from slavery in Egypt. Though there will be difficulties that come, we must endure and press forward for the greater goal of God’s kingdom being pursued.

Our passion – to love God and people (Matt. 22:37-40) – in many ways will be tested in the most mundane ways to the dramatic. There are the small irritations, the bothersome habits of those that we find strange, the personality quirks that give some the justification to avoid those who make them feel uncomfortable. Then there are the conflicts that arise from misunderstandings to deliberate slights and attacks and the great drama of betrayals and destroyed relationships. These are all a part of the race we run and as the Navy SEALs are challenged, don’t ring the bell and give up because of the weariness of these hardships. For sure we will feel worn down and we will see others worn down and give up and there will be times of great discouragement, even maybe to the point of despair. But don’t let the bullies beat you down and don’t let the hard-hearted convince you to bail. We have a great God who has assured us that He is working all things out for good. We have a compassionate Savior who has promised us and never forsakes us. We have a powerful Holy Spirit who comforts us and counsels us according to the Word of God to strengthen and enable us to be strong through God’s strength.

Take heart and know that God uses such little people like us to change the world for the sake of His kingdom and glory. So don’t let the mundane and the difficult cause you to stray from the path. Press on, run the race with endurance, and finish well. Be faithful in the little things. Don’t go at things alone but partner with those that God has provided both to disciple you as well as for you to disciple. Be gracious and kind toward all and manifest the love of Christ.

I’m going to piggyback off of what the admiral shared and follow a similar path of encouragement:

Start each day with a prayer completed and be faithful to do the small things.
Find someone to both disciple/mentor you as well as for you to do the same for someone else.
Be gracious, kind, and gentle toward all, even your enemies.
Know that life indeed is not fair and we will all fail often. Take the risks of faith and trusting the Lord especially during the difficult times. Stand firm in the midst of the battle, pick up your fallen brother/sister, and never, ever, no never give up the fight of faith. If we do these thing, the next generation and the generations that follow will be able to see a testimony of faithfulness to Christ that will hopefully encourage them, inspire them, and challenge them to pick up the baton and keep running the race for the glory of God. In this way, may what we do today change the world for the sake of God’s kingdom.

…Upon Which Thou Hast Caused Me To Hope

by Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Psalm 119:49

Whatever your especial need may be, you may readily find some promise in the Bible suited to it.

  • Are you faint and feeble because your way is rough and you are weary? Here is the promise-‘He giveth power to the faint.’ When you read such a promise, take it back to the great Promiser, and ask Him to fulfil His own word.
  • Are you seeking after Christ, and thirsting for closer communion with Him? This promise shines like a star upon you-‘Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after righteousness, for they shall be filled.’ Take that promise to the throne continually; do not plead anything else, but go to God over and over again with this-‘Lord, Thou hast said it, do as Thou hast said.’
  • Are you distressed because of sin, and burdened with the heavy load of your iniquities? Listen to these words-‘I, even I, am He that blotteth out thy transgressions, and will no more remember thy sins.’ You have no merit of your own to plead why He should pardon you, but plead His written engagements and He will perform them.
  • Are you afraid lest you should not be able to hold on to the end, lest, after having thought yourself a child of God, you should prove a castaway? If that is your state, take this word of grace to the throne and plead it: ‘The mountains may depart, and the hills may be removed, but the covenant of My love shall not depart from thee.’
  • If you have lost the sweet sense of the Saviour’s presence, and are seeking Him with a sorrowful heart, remember the promises: ‘Return unto Me, and I will return unto you;’ ‘For a small moment have I forsaken thee, but with great mercies will I gather thee.’

Banquet your faith upon God’s own word, and whatever your fears or wants, repair to the Bank of Faith with your Father’s note of hand, saying, ‘Remember the word unto Thy servant, upon which Thou hast caused me to hope.’

4.28a

Weekly Links (4/24/2015)

To the Christian theist, good and evil have a point of reference. With the naturalistic starting point, good and evil are either emotionally sensed or pragmatically driven, both of which fall victim to the reasoning processes of our diverse cultures. This is a glaring inconsistency within naturalism. (Ravi Zacharias & Vince Vitale, Why Suffering?: Finding Meaning and Comfort When Life Doesn’t Make Sense)

by Cesar Vigil-Ruiz

Feliz Friday! I pray your week have been filled with opportunities to reflect Christ in your life, and would love to extend that to you all with this week’s links!

  • Nathan Busenitz has written an excellent article giving biblical reasons why Christians accept the 66 books of the Bible as the Word of God. Do you know the answer? Click to find out!
  • Russell Moore reminds us that Christians may contend for religious freedom, but that shouldn’t lead us to believe that we will be free from ridicule. Great thoughts.
  • Dan DeWitt, in a style that’s short and sweet, argues for apologetics to be a non-negotiable in discipling our children and youth. I wholeheartedly agree, and think you will too after reading his post.
  • What influence does a godly wife have? What does a Christlike husband look like? What kind of love should he demonstrate? The answers are just a click away.
  • The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood just came out with their Spring issue of JBMW, which you can access for free online. With the direction our culture is rapidly heading towards, you would be wise to stay informed of how the Christian worldview shines the light of Christ in this dark world. We are indebted to CBMW for standing firm in the truth.
  • Last week, I mentioned Courtney Reissig gave a talk concerning the four myths of feminism, which didn’t have a link to the audio. Fortunately, since then, she did give a couple messages that were similar in content at her church. Listen in!
  • If you’re on the fence about whether to dig into Kevin DeYoung’s new book on the issue of homosexuality, be sure to watch his interview with Justin Taylor.
  • How do you practice gospel-centered spirituality? Don Whitney answers.
  • The True Woman blog has been promoting their new resource True Woman 201: Interior Design, which is a sequel to their previous workbook on biblical womanhood. This time around, their focus is on the ten elements of biblical womanhood, with accompanying videos, all from the book of Titus! This looks like a wonderful complement to Pastor Patrick’s Sunday sermon series!

That’s all for this week! Don’t forget this week is flocks week, so enjoy your time together, and see you on Sunday!

Soli Deo Gloria