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Good Master

by Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Matthew 19:16

If the young man in the gospel used this title in speaking to our Lord, how much more fitly may I thus address Him! He is indeed my Master in both senses, a ruling Master and a teaching Master. I delight to run upon His errands, and to sit at His feet. I am both His servant and His disciple, and count it my highest honour to own the double character. If He should ask me why I call Him ‘good,’ I should have a ready answer. It is true that ‘there is none good but one, that is, God,’ but then He is God, and all the goodness of Deity shines forth in Him. In my experience, I have found Him good, so good, indeed, that all the good I have has come to me through Him.

He was good to me when I was dead in sin, for He raised me by His Spirit’s power; He has been good to me in all my needs, trials, struggles, and sorrows. Never could there be a better Master, for His service is freedom, His rule is love: I wish I were one thousandth part as good a servant. When He teaches me as my Rabbi, He is unspeakably good, His doctrine is divine, His manner is condescending, His spirit is gentleness itself. No error mingles with His instruction-pure is the golden truth which He brings forth, and all His teachings lead to goodness, sanctifying as well as edifying the disciple. Angels find Him a good Master and delight to pay their homage at His footstool. The ancient saints proved Him to be a good Master, and each of them rejoiced to sing, ‘I am Thy servant, O Lord!’ My own humble testimony must certainly be to the same effect.

I will bear this witness before my friends and neighbours, for possibly they may be led by my testimony to seek my Lord Jesus as their Master. O that they would do so! They would never repent so wise a deed. If they would but take His easy yoke, they would find themselves in so royal a service that they would enlist in it for ever.

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The Worth of Our Words

by Elder Johnny Kim

One of the things that happens when you become a parent is you quickly become accustomed to bodily fluids that emanate from all manner of places out of your children. At least it’s been my experience that the things that might have repulsed you before having kids no longer seem to have the same crippling effect. You don’t think twice about changing dirty diapers, picking noses, and swapping out wet bed sheets all with your bare hands. But every once in a while, even the most invincible super-parent is tested to their limits. I had one such occasion several months ago when my oldest son became sick enough that I had to drive him to urgent care. After I had parked our car just outside the clinic, I opened the passenger door to take him out and was no more than two seconds away from removing him from his car seat when he vomited all over himself, his car seat, and my arms. The worst of it was that since he had been sick for several days, it was the type of vomit that smelled as if it had been festering and rotting in his stomach for just as long. I was equally disturbed by both the rotten smell of it and the fact that it had just gushed forth from his mouth!

As weird as it sounds, that experience is what pops into my head when I read Ephesians 4:29, a verse that we learned about a couple weeks ago for our Youth Ministry Friday Night Bible Study. In the passage, the Apostle Paul writes, “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear.” The word Paul uses, “unwholesome” or “corrupt,” literally means that which is rotten or worthless. It invokes the idea of rotten food coming out of someone’s mouth. Food that, because of its rottenness, is not only utterly worthless and useless, but also offensive and disgusting. The imagery in the verse not only serves to command us to abstain from such speech, but it also serves to vividly paint the picture of what it looks like when we disobey and speak such unwholesome or corrupt words.

It seems clear from Ephesians 4:29 that Christians are to abstain from rotten speech including profanity and vulgar language, but other passages can also help us to understand that Christians ought to avoid more than just blatant profanities and vulgarities. Later on in the same epistle, we read in Ephesians 5:4 that “there must be no filthiness and silly talk, or coarse jesting” coming from our lips as well. Colossians 3:8 says to put aside “anger, wrath, malice, slander, and abusive speech from your mouth.” If Ephesians 4:29 conversely describes “unrotten” speech as that which is edifying and gracious, it seems to me that we ought to understand that rotten speech then also includes dirty jokes, inappropriate comments, insults, put-downs, and the like. Things that are anything but edifying and gracious. All these things should have no place in the Christian vocabulary and no utterance from the Christian mouth.

Plenty of time and effort can be spent on trying to specify and categorize these rotten words, phrases, and slang terminology for any given societal and cultural context. However, to think that we only need to simply curate a list of rotten speech to have in our minds to avoid misses the truth about how God has created us. The Bible tells us that our mouths and what we say are merely an expression of what is in our hearts. Matthew 12:34 and Luke 6:45 reveal that at the bottom of it all, a speech issue is ultimately just a heart issue. Because it is a heart issue, speech can serve as window into a heart that is kind, loving, and one that desires to glorify God with every utterance. Because it is a heart issue, speech can also be a barometer for a heart that is sick, dying, and rotten. For those who are saved who still struggle with unwholesome speech, our ultimate hope also lies in this very truth that it is a heart issue, for because it is a heart issue, it means the hope of changing our speech rests in the one who is able and willing to change our hearts.

I concede that certain speech, like with many other things, can be argued to be a gray-area issue. But in the end, also like with many other things, Christians should be occupied with striving for the heights of godliness and righteousness rather than trying to plumb the depths of permissiveness and acceptableness. In any matter of Christian living, we ought to seek to be more like Christ and less like the world. If unwholesome speech could be pictured as foul and rotting food coming out of our mouths, then edifying and gracious speech is sweet, fragrant, beautiful, and refreshing to those who hear it. Which of those two pictures describes the taste and smell of the words you use and the things you say? I would hope that we would all be striving for our speech to be like the latter.

Distractions and Priorities

by Pastor Mark Chin

As long as I can remember, I’ve always struggled with distractions and losing sight of key priorities. It’s an issue that would come up repeatedly at parent teacher sessions – especially at the Christian school I attended for elementary and middle school. Had I grown up in the 90’s, I probably would have been diagnosed with ADHD and I would have been a prime candidate for Ritalin or Adderall. I recall one concerned Christian teacher inquiring about the sugar content of my breakfasts (drugs and stimulants aren’t the only substances that we look to for answers). Looking back, I can say it worked in my favor that there were fewer choices, whether it be entertainment, diagnoses, or medication, for an easily distracted and hyperactive child growing up in the late 60’s and early 70’s (I was born in ’67 – which means by Lighthouse standards, I am prehistoric for most of your experiences).

Time, however, never stands still. And now, as a husband, father, and pastor living in 2016, I have no shortage of choices and distractions to battle, not just for me but for my family and the church as well. Keeping first things first and not losing sight of key priorities are mighty and exhausting battles that must be fought each day – battles where small losses have huge consequences not just for me, but for those I love dearly. One of the most insidious challenges in these battles is the distraction brought by an abundance of good choices and good things that press hard for a prime place of real estate in our hearts and minds. As a pastor, there is no shortage of good things or needs demanding my time and attention. Frequently, the discouragement is not having the time or capacity to address them all well. If Satan can keep me away from the best by keeping me distracted by the good, he’s winning. Not losing sight of key priorities is no easy task. It is something for which we finite and frail humans need an abundance of mercy and grace from the Lord. The good news, however, is that we have a God who is more than able and willing to give the mercy and grace we need and He does so through Christ and through His Word. His priorities are clear, even if ours frequently seem all mixed up.

Two portions of Scripture that I need to go back to repeatedly, especially when many good things are beginning to distract me from the most important things, are the Sermon on the Mount and 1 Timothy. I can never hear enough of Christ’s command to seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness, as well as His command to not worry about things God has already taken care of for me. And as I consider the challenges of Timothy’s ministry, I see that the Lord makes clear through the Apostle Paul many of the Trojan horse distractions that wage war on our feeble pastoral attempts to honor Christ’s commands. They include distractions we are to avoid like the endless discussions or debates about secondary or speculative concerns, the demands of those without genuine needs, or worldly criticism of a spiritual ministry.

It is so helpful to hear Paul’s exhortations to Timothy, who probably felt like he was breaking under the pressure of a besieged ministry and was likely suffering from stress-induced stomach ailments. For Paul, like his Lord and Savior, the priorities of life and ministry are clear. The Gospel of our Lord and Savior – the Gospel that saved us – is to be the first priority of God’s servant even as it is God’s primary provision for every aspect of our lives. Clearly, the primary threat to believers and the body of Christ is anything that distracts from the Gospel, especially those within the church who teach and live a different doctrine from the Gospel of our Lord and Savior. In the face of such opposition and distraction, Paul, in 1 Timothy 2, exhorts Timothy and the men of the church to make the practice of prayer a top priority. “First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, … I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling …” (1 Tim 2:1-8).

The need for prayer to be a first priority and practice in our lives should come as no surprise. If prayer is a humble dependency upon the will and Word of God, it is the natural expression and beat of a heart that has been transformed by the Good News of Christ. If sin is our primary problem and God’s desire is that all people, including our leaders, might be saved from sin and come to the knowledge of the truth, it should be obvious to us that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings should be made for all people as a primary and prevailing practice among the people of God. If there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, then to Him we must go first in the pursuit of all our needs, most especially the need to be bold for the proclamation of the Gospel and the need for salvation from sin. If men were created and redeemed to glorify God through leading their families, their churches, and their world to Christ, then it should be no surprise that men have been created and redeemed to lead the way in prayer. What is God’s remedy for a distracted life? It’s the sound doctrine of the Gospel of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, that drives us to our knees in prayer, to receive as first importance the mercy and grace we, and the world, so desperately need. May His priorities be our primary provision to live for Him.

A Psalm of Thanks

by Pastor Patrick Cho

Many passages of Scripture address the theme of thanksgiving. Since all that we have is ultimately from the Lord, it is appropriate to give Him thanks and praise His name. Psalm 100, though brief, contains significant truth about the reasons believers should give thanks. As the Thanksgiving holiday is once again upon us, I thought this was a helpful theme to meditate on.

The psalm begins with a general call to worship in vv. 1-2. The three commands in these verses walk us through the believer’s expression of thanks. First, there is the call to “shout joyfully.” This is a term that is repeated throughout the Psalms and Isaiah (Ps. 66:1; 81:1; 95:1-2; 98:4, 6; 145:7; Isa. 44:23; 52:8-9; 65:14). It can refer to giving a shout for joy or blowing a loud sound through a horn.

Second, the psalmist commands God’s people to “serve the Lord with gladness.” Service to the Lord is a form of worship unto Him. Here, the psalmist’s thought is that any service offered to the Lord should be done in gladness. In Deuteronomy 28, God warns Israel against disobedience and tells her that if judgment comes upon her, it is because she did not serve Him with a glad heart (Deut. 28:47).

Third, the psalmist says that the people should come before God “with joyful singing.” This is a term that refers to a ringing cry, rather than a shout of triumph. Along with the other two terms, this also conveys a theme of joyfulness and gladness. The idea is that the one who trusts in God has every reason to rejoice, and that joy should be expressed to the Lord in worship of Him and in giving thanks.

The psalmist moves in v. 3 to speak of three reasons the believer has to be thankful. First, the believer can give thanks because of who God is. He writes, “Know that the Lord Himself is God.” As followers of Christ, we do not only praise Him for what He has done for us (though that is appropriate). We ought to give thanks also for who He is. The very fact that He is God and we are not warrants praise to Him. He is infinitely greater and better than we are. We praise Him and give thanks to Him because He alone is worthy of our praise.

A second reason is given in the phrase, “It is He who made us, and not we ourselves.” One of the proofs that He alone is God is that He is the giver of life. For all of eternity, God is set apart as Creator. Even though man is created in the image of God, we will never attain equality with God. There will always be a Creator/creature distinction. But we have reason to give thanks because He made us and gave us life. The fact that we live and move and have our being is because He created us and sustains us (cf. Acts 17:28).

The final reason the psalmist gives is that “we are His people and the sheep of His pasture.” In other words, just as a shepherd cares for his flock, so our God cares for us. This is because He brings us into relationship with Him by His grace. Though in our sin we were enemies of God, Jesus Christ reconciled us to the Father by His atoning work on the cross. Though we were once enemies, now we are the people of God, brought into right relationship with Him. We celebrate this relationship when we give thanks to God. He not only brings us into relationship with Him, but He also sustains and cares for us as a demonstration of His deep love for us. For these reasons, the psalmist says we should express thanks to God.

He concludes once again with a call to worship, that as we come into the presence of God, we should do so first and foremost with a voice and attitude of thankfulness (v. 4). We have no place to come with a complaint or accusation. Because of God’s rich love for His people, we ought to bless His name. We do this because He is good, His lovingkindness is everlasting, and His faithfulness to all generations (v. 5).

For The Flesh Lusteth Against The Spirit…

by Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Galatians 5:17

In every believer’s heart there is a constant struggle between the old nature and the new. The old nature is very active, and loses no opportunity of plying all the weapons of its deadly armoury against newborn grace; while on the other hand, the new nature is ever on the watch to resist and destroy its enemy. Grace within us will employ prayer, and faith, and hope, and love, to cast out the evil; it takes unto it the ‘whole armour of God,’ and wrestles earnestly. These two opposing natures will never cease to struggle so long as we are in this world.

The battle of ‘Christian’ with ‘Apollyon’ lasted three hours, but the battle of Christian with himself lasted all the way from the Wicket Gate in the river Jordan. The enemy is so securely entrenched within us that he can never be driven out while we are in this body: but although we are closely beset, and often in sore conflict, we have an Almighty helper, even Jesus, the Captain of our salvation, who is ever with us, and who assures us that we shall eventually come off more than conquerors through Him. With such assistance the new-born nature is more than a match for its foes.

Are you fighting with the adversary to-day? Are Satan, the world, and the flesh, all against you? Be not discouraged nor dismayed. Fight on! For God Himself is with you; Jehovah Nissi is your banner, and Jehovah Rophi is the healer of your wounds. Fear not, you shall overcome, for who can defeat Omnipotence? Fight on, ‘looking unto Jesus’; and though long and stern be the conflict, sweet will be the victory, and glorious the promised reward.

‘From strength to strength go on;
Wrestle, and fight, and pray,
Tread all the powers of darkness down,
And win the well-fought day.’

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He Will Make Her Wilderness Like Eden

by Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Isaiah 51:3

Methinks, I see in vision a howling wilderness, a great and terrible desert, like to the Sahara. I perceive nothing in it to relieve the eye, all around I am wearied with a vision of hot and arid sand, strewn with ten thousand bleaching skeletons of wretched men who have expired in anguish, having lost their way in the pitiless waste. What an appalling sight! How horrible! a sea of sand without a bound, and without an oasis, a cheerless graveyard for a race forlorn!

But behold and wonder! Upon a sudden, upspringing from the scorching sand I see a plant of renown; and as it grows it buds, the bud expands-it is a rose, and at its side a lily bows its modest head; and, miracle of miracles! as the fragrance of those flowers is diffused the wilderness is transformed into a fruitful field, and all around it blossoms exceedingly, the glory of Lebanon is given unto it, the excellency of Carmel and Sharon. Call it not Sahara, call it Paradise. Speak not of it any longer as the valley of deathshade, for where the skeletons lay bleaching in the sun, behold a resurrection is proclaimed, and up spring the dead, a mighty army, full of life immortal.

Jesus is that plant of renown, and His presence makes all things new. Nor is the wonder less in each individual’s salvation. Yonder I behold you, dear reader, cast out, an infant, unswathed, unwashed, defiled with your own blood, left to be food for beasts of prey. But lo, a jewel has been thrown into your bosom by a divine hand, and for its sake you have been pitied and tended by divine providence, you are washed and cleansed from your defilement, you are adopted into heaven’s family, the fair seal of love is upon your forehead, and the ring of faithfulness is on your hand-you are now a prince unto God, though once an orphan, cast away.

O prize exceedingly the matchless power and grace which changes deserts into gardens, and makes the barren heart to sing for joy.

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The Positive Imprint of Formative Reading

by Pastor James Lee

This past summer, an SD brother asked me a thoughtful question, “Which is your favorite book outside of the Bible?” I responded that I have so many books I’m fond of, that it would be difficult for me to narrow them down to just one. Maybe that’s a “cop out” answer, but that’s genuinely how I feel. And this is coming from someone who throughout his pre-college days was greatly devoted to NOT reading. Reading for pleasure is not something that I understood. I only read when I had to for school – and even now I don’t remember much except a few parts of The Merchant of Venice and The Adventures of Tom Sawyer. The rest is a big blur, or found in those yellow Cliff Notes. My parents would buy me books each summer in the off chance that I might actually read them, only to realize the futility of their project. It wasn’t until I was an undergraduate being challenged with great questions from peers I evangelized on campus along with a new hunger for serving the Lord did I actually truly begin to read. And read I did. The summer between my freshman and sophomore years, I read about 30 Christian books. Mom and dad were witnessing something miraculous. Even today, when they visit my church study, my mom will say in Korean, “There is a God!”

Now I love to read, but now have less time to do so. I enjoy reading books of all kinds, not just Christian works, especially history. One that I recently read and recommend would be Six Frigates: The Epic History of the Founding of the U.S. Navy… really, it’s good stuff! But prior to that, the only reading that I actually enjoyed was the Calvin & Hobbes comic strip, and C.S. Lewis’ Chronicles of Narnia series. Picking one favorite book back in the day would have been difficult for a different reason than today… I had none! Today, I would have favorites in certain subjects. And since then, I would have favorites at certain times in my life. But to choose one, and only one, I’d have to think a lot about that, and even then, I would be hard pressed to have a finalist. So instead, I offered to write a Beacon article to answer his question, but in the format of an autobiographical timeline of the impact of certain books. I hope it encourages each of us to read for our own edification, equipping, and encouragement, however it might specifically and uniquely take form. So dear brother, who will remain unnamed, I apologize for the tardiness of my article.

And let me add, as a quick caveat, that I’m thankful that there was a qualifier of “outside the Bible” because of the singular primacy of commitment we all share to The Book, to which everything else ought to be a distant second. It is a misguided practice to read a lot of Christian books, blogs, and biographies, but neglect a daily reading, meditation, and application of the Scriptures. This article I hope would promote a lot more direct Bible reading. I could not emphasize that enough. First, we need our daily bread. Jesus replied to Satan’s temptation in Matthew 4:4, “MAN SHALL NOT LIVE ON BREAD ALONE, BUT ON EVERY WORD THAT PROCEEDS OUT OF THE MOUTH OF GOD.’” That too has to be our conviction. The original context of what Jesus quoted is found in Deuteronomy 8:3 when the Israelites are being addressed after 40 years in the wilderness, “He humbled you and let you be hungry, and fed you with manna which you did not know, nor did your fathers know, that He might make you understand that man does not live by bread alone, but man lives by everything that proceeds out of the mouth of the LORD.” God intentionally humbled them. God intentionally let them be hungry. Such mercy. Such love. Likewise, we need God’s Word like we need food, and our prayerful dependence on Him is like our need for oxygen. Being in the Word is like eating, and praying is like breathing. The apostles in Acts 6:4 demonstrated that priority to the “Word and prayer.”

Second, if one hasn’t read the entire Bible in its breadth from Genesis to Revelation, or isn’t still seeking to maintain that spiritual discipline, I would counsel one to start or restart there, or at least to do so concurrently. As David directed to the chief musician to lead our life’s singing in Psalm 19:10, “They are more desirable than gold, yes, than much fine gold; Sweeter also than honey and the drippings of the honeycomb.” As Paul urged his young protégé in 2 Timothy 2:15, “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth” and 2 Timothy 3:16-17, “All Scripture is God-breathed and is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.”

Nevertheless, there is an immense value to the reading of solid Christian books insofar as they help us to more accurately understand the Word, thoughtfully apply the Word, and affectionately be equipped by the Word for worship and service. The old adage is that “leaders are readers”, and that should be evident among local church shepherds. But that aim and desire should, to varying degrees, also characterize our corporate pursuit of godliness. So I will share a list of books that have impacted me personally at various points in my life. I want to qualify my list though in a few ways:

  • The list is not an authoritative list of the best books available. It is only kind of an autobiographical list of what I’ve read and how they are like sign posts along my discipleship – as a new believer, as an excited husband-to-be, as an anxious father, as a struggling pastor…
  • The list tries to limit authors to once, or at most twice as well as subjects as much as possible – I like certain authors more, and I’m tempted to list certain subjects more, so this is my effort at curtailing repetition in both categories.
  • The list does not reflect what I now view, or others might view as the best book on a subject – I think that is something you can ask others about, which is what I’m always trying to ask as well. I have opinions on that question, but with new books (even if just unread) always on the horizon, I’ll resist.
  • This list doesn’t commend everything the author or book teaches as there has been theological development in my life – books are listed for their personal impact at certain times in my life.
  • This list is probably missing something – I’m just eyeing my library and making quick assessments, and even then, it’s mild torture to have to leave off so many favorites.
  • This list leans a bit heavy towards my pastoral ministry – I would suggest other titles depending on each person’s needs and where they are at, so it’s wise to get counsel from others.
  • This list has a variety – some are simple and short, others long and weighty, but I have my own strange reasons for including or not including some books… I may plead the 5th when asked.

Here are 40 books that impacted me to keep trusting Him who is trustworthy…

  1. More Than a Carpenter by Josh McDowell – one of the first little books that I read as a new believer
  2. Trusting God by Jerry Bridges – one of my all-time favorites, and this one I’ve read again and again
  3. Harvest by Chuck Smith – these testimonies gave me hope as a shy man that God could use even me
  4. The Gospel According to Jesus by John MacArthur – I read this that incredible summer of reading based on the recommendation of my small group leader – it affirmed truths for me like few have
  5. Here I Stand: A Life of Martin Luther by Roland Bainton – this was an assignment in my college history class that affected me deeply, and once more as an assignment in seminary!
  6. Competent to Counsel by Jay Adams – this book by the “Martin Luther” of the biblical counseling reformation was pivotal in grounding my commitment to the sufficiency of Scripture
  7. Hudson Taylor’s Spiritual Secret by Taylors – I was forever exhorted to missions during my college years by this and it has stood as a convicting testimony behind every mission trip I’ve been on
  8. The Lost Art of Disciplemaking by Leroy Eims – as I was being mentored to mentor younger believers with the Navigators during college, I found practical encouragement here at the time
  9. Power Through Prayer by E.M. Bounds – encouraged me to a thoughtful prayer life that I struggled to consistently have
  10. Knowing God by J.I. Packer – started and struggled to get through this book in college, but it threw the doors off at the beginning of seminary
  11. Essential Truths of the Christian Faith by R.C. Sproul – I don’t agree with everything, but I always find his explanations concise, cogent, and careful, and this book of short chapters lit a fire in my soul
  12. Found: God’s Will by John MacArthur – I read this little paperback in my school library while I was struggling terribly with the very question, but left feeling freed to live joyfully for God’s glory
  13. Tell the Truth by Will Metzger – still to me is the best, not shortest, book on personal evangelism
  14. Selling Out the Church: The Dangers of Church Marketing by Philip Kenneson & James Street – this helped me stay the course while many of my friends went to the seeker sensitive model in the 90s
  15. Spiritual Leadership by J. Oswald Sanders – a classic work that is on this list because it was my first
  16. Always Ready by Greg Bahnsen – as Van Til was difficult for me, this helped me navigate presuppositional apologetics when most of my training was from an evidentialist perspective
  17. Life in the Father’s House by Wayne Mack & David Swavely – there might be better titles on the matter of church membership, but this was nostalgically the first one in a happy line of them for me
  18. Thoughts for Young Men by J.C. Ryle – after I read this little book as a single man, I remember buying a few dozen copies and giving them out to all the brothers in my church
  19. Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper – there might be more important titles of his I read, but I chose this for the way it challenged me and convicted me as a young churchplanter almost 15 years ago
  20. Liberating Ministry From the Success Syndrome by Kent Hughes – this remains equal encouragement to remain faithful and equal admonition against pastoral envy – I needed this at a ministry low point
  21. When People Are Big and God is Small by Edward Welch – I struggled growing up with a painful shyness and still struggle with a self-focus fearing man and caring too much what people think. This book helped me in tremendously in that struggle.
  22. Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life by Donald Whitney – with so many great titles on Christian living, this was one that helped bear more fruit in my life than many others
  23. The Peacemaker by Ken Sande – my biblical counseling mentor George Scipione urged me to read this as I was taking nouthetic counseling classes with him just after graduating seminary, and it became the first bible study I ever led in my first full-time pastorate influencing my ministry ever since
  24. The Godly Man’s Picture by Thomas Watson – probably my favorite Puritan writer and title, but reading him launched me into a growing appreciation and reading of other Puritans
  25. The Supremacy of God in Preaching by John Piper – there are many books in this category, but when I see this in my library, it makes me both want to preach and to preach to the glory of God
  26. Lectures to My Students by Charles Spurgeon – raw, eloquent, and immensely practical lessons from the “prince of preachers” himself to someone who still has so much to learn
  27. Leading With Love by Alexander Strauch – one of my all-time favorite books, the one I tend to give to every young man I meet about to enter seminary or just starting out in ministry
  28. Revival & Revivalism by Ian Murray – I try to read as many books of Murray as I can, as I love reading history in general, but this was the one that started me on that journey with him
  29. Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp – when I was still a single senior pastor, I read this to equip myself to serve new parents in the church, then I reread it when Sandy was pregnant with Toby
  30. The Complete Husband by Lou Priolo – there are so many wonderful marriage books I’ve read and yet to read, but this left me in tears of repentance and with a renewed desire to love my wife
  31. Memoirs of an Ordinary Pastor by D.A. Carson – the story of a famous son’s less well-known father hit home deeply with me, lifted my spirits in a discouraging time, and shaped a more biblical perspective
  32. Sinners in the Hands of a Good God by David Clotfelter – when John MacArthur said get it at Shepherds Conference, I read it and been giving it to every Arminian brother or sister ever since
  33. Counterfeit Gods by Timothy Keller – this confronted the many idols of my heart and gave me hope
  34. Church Planting is For Wimps by Mike McKinley – this book fit me to a tee and still does
  35. A Gospel Primer for Christians by Milton Vincent – love this book so much that it’s required reading for our FOF class (no, he’s not one of those Puritan paperback authors)
  36. Adopted for Life by Russell Moore – when Sandy and I were getting serious in our dating relationship, I asked her if she was open to adopting a child. This book not only encouraged us to fulfill that shared desire, it gave us a deeper appreciation of the gospel and our own amazing status as His children
  37. William Tyndale: A Biography by David Daniell – I have done a biographical teaching around every Reformation Day for the last several years, this was one of the most powerful lives I read
  38. Thoughts on Family Worship by J.W. Alexander – the older works of centuries ago still prove to be the best. Even when the newest and greatest have come on the scene, this is one of them for me
  39. The Hole in Our Holiness by Kevin DeYoung – I appreciated this loving and thoughtful response to the dangers of the hyper-grace movement, just as J.C. Ryle had to similarly respond to in the past
  40. Dangerous Calling by Paul David Tripp – convicting and challenging then, and one I think would be both needful and helpful for me to reread

I apologize for not limiting myself enough, but I hope all of the above would encourage you to read or continue to read. I left off many books that I would recommend over what I listed, but they reflect the titles which were significant at certain times in my life. If the circumstances were different, the list would probably be different. How about you? Which books would you list? Why? I invite you to share with and ask others.

When Paul was in a Roman dungeon expecting eventual execution, he instructed in 2 Timothy 4:13, “When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, also the books, and above all the parchments.” If I was Paul, I might ask for some decent food, or to pull some strings and get me out of here!” But Paul asks him for warm clothing and to bring him… books! When a guy is on death row, he wants his soul fed!

If I had to answer one of those cliché questions about which 5 books I would want on a desert island, I might answer (1) MacArthur Study Bible (2) Sound Systematic Theology (3) A Christian Directory by Richard Baxter because it’s great biblical counseling material and really long (4) A Hymnal, and let’s be practical (5) a book on surviving on a desert island! But the real challenge is that we don’t have all this time to sit on the beach to read. For me, I’m preparing sermons, Bible studies, counseling, visiting the hospital, fixing the printer, etc. Then at home, I’m fixing the broken faucet, going to the kids’ school play, trying to have a date night with my wife. And your own life is really no different, and the last thing we think we have time to do is read, right?

Dave Harvey exhorts us:

When we read and study, it expresses our commitment to godly discipleship. One of the first things I remember learning as a new believer was that the Greek word for ‘disciple’ (mathetes) literally means ‘learner’. To be called to Christ is to be called to learn, grow, and develop, so that we may learn to live in a manner worthy of the gospel (Ephesians 4:1)… We don’t merely read good books, we befriend them. We open our mind to them and grant the gift of influence. As friends, books feed us. It’s what makes them potent. It’s what’s makes them valuable. Just like they were for Paul… I can’t begin to recount how much reading good books has affected me. It’s not possible to quantify how my companionship with the messages of Charles Spurgeon has lifted me in dark moments of discouragement, or how Thomas Watson has armed me to fight for contentment, or how John Piper has pushed me to treasure God until my last dying breath. As good companions, books feed the soul and expand the mind. They help prevent ministry-lite, which is leadership based upon impulses, impressions, intuitions, and instincts.

Dear fellow disciples, let’s read!

The Evening And The Morning Were The First Day

by Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Genesis 1:5

Was it so even in the beginning? Did light and darkness divide the realm of time in the first day? Then little wonder is it if I have also changes in my circumstances from the sunshine of prosperity to the midnight of adversity. It will not always be the blaze of noon even in my soul concerns, I must expect at seasons to mourn the absence of my former joys, and seek my Beloved in the night. Nor am I alone in this, for all the Lord’s beloved ones have had to sing the mingled song of judgment and of mercy, of trial and deliverance, of mourning and of delight. It is one of the arrangements of Divine providence that day and night shall not cease either in the spiritual or natural creation till we reach the land of which it is written, ‘there is no night there.’ What our heavenly Father ordains is wise and good.

What, then, my soul, is it best for thee to do? Learn first to be content with this divine order, and be willing, with Job, to receive evil from the hand of the Lord as well as good. Study next, to make the outgoings of the morning and the evening to rejoice. Praise the Lord for the sun of joy when it rises, and for the gloom of evening as it falls. There is beauty both in sunrise and sunset, sing of it, and glorify the Lord. Like the nightingale, pour forth thy notes at all hours. Believe that the night is as useful as the day. The dews of grace fall heavily in the night of sorrow. The stars of promise shine forth gloriously amid the darkness of grief. Continue thy service under all changes. If in the day thy watchword be labour, at night exchange it for watch. Every hour has its duty, do thou continue in thy calling as the Lord’s servant until He shall suddenly appear in His glory. My soul, thine evening of old age and death is drawing near, dread it not, for it is part of the day; and the Lord has said, ‘I will cover him all the day long.’

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Weekly Links (11/4/2016)

by Stephen Rodgers

Welcome to the first Friday of the month, where we highlight free resources. The usual caveats apply: being featured is not the same thing as being endorsed, and the blurbs are pulled from the respective sites, not written by me.

America’s Pastor (free Christianaudio audiobook)

During a career spanning sixty years, the Reverend Billy Graham’s resonant voice and chiseled profile entered the living rooms of millions of Americans with a message that called for personal transformation through God’s grace. How did a lanky farm kid from North Carolina become an evangelist hailed by the media as “America’s pastor”? More than a conventional biography, Grant Wacker’s interpretive study deepens our understanding of why Billy Graham has mattered so much to so many.

Philippians: How to Have Joy (free Logos resource)

How do I live the Christian life joyfully regardless of people or circumstances? What is the purpose of suffering and the Christian perspective on death? Do I have “the mind of Christ”? Discover true, deep-down joy in your life that the world cannot take away.

Maturity (free Tabletalk magazine)

The November issue of Tabletalk considers the biblical-theological theme of maturity. Maturity is a combination of wisdom, kindness, and endurance—a “growing up” in love. Compared to our forefathers in the faith, many of us are lacking in maturity. Yet, the progression from spiritual infancy to maturity in Christ is the normal progression of the Christian life, and helping others grow in the “fullness of Christ” is one of the primary goals of the church. The goal of this issue is to counter immaturity in the church by presenting a more compelling account of biblical maturity.

DTR Article

by Sharon Kim

DTR. A random concoction of alphabet letters? What does it stand for? Well you’re in luck, because it was defined and described on October 9, 2016 by Pastor Patrick (sermon audio found here). DTR, which can be a noun or a verb, stands for “Defining the Relationship.” It is often used as a synonym for “asking out” or the act of clarifying the relationship between a guy and a girl when one or both parties suspect that they have become more than friends. This sermon in particular defined what a God-honoring vs. flesh satisfying-relationship would look like.

Relationships are not perfect, which can be due to preconceived unrealistic expectations. It is important – actually, ESSENTIAL – to be imbued by the Holy Spirit and to pursue/maintain a relationship that would glorify God. Because God’s way is less painful, more fulfilling, and as Pastor Patrick challenged the listeners, more romantic. More often than not, we have seen the pains of broken relationships, which is the result of sin. God has graciously and mercifully taken away our sin, and thus, He has given us the freedom to have a relationship that could be bearing the fruits of the Spirit.

So let us look to the all-sufficient Word of God, the sword of the Spirit, to battle the shortcomings of relationships. Galatians 5:19 gives us key words that describe acts and states that we should avoid because they are not God-honoring. This sermon dissects and describes each word which is meant to ask questions that can identify if someone is engaged in what is immoral, consistent strife with God… SIN.

  1. Sexual immorality, which can come in many different forms. A prevelant form that was highlighted was fornication (pre-marital sex). Are you in deed, action or thought performing an act such as this?
  2. Sensuality, which can be defined as debauchery (seduction from duty, allegiance, or virtue). Do you indulge in this?
  3. Idolatry, which can take the form of anything that takes precedence in your life over God. Is your dating relationship or even your desire to date consuming areas in your heart and mind that should be reserved for God?
  4. Sorcery is a broad term that involves steering one towards a reliance void of God. For example, the use of illicit drugs. Do you drink, smoke or use any substances that disrupt your or your dating partner’s consciousness for pleasure or escape?
  5. Enmity, which is a synonym of hatred. Can you not stand your relationship or the person you are dating?
  6. Strife, which describes quarrels, bickering and arguing. Though relationships may go through arguments, can you say that it is a consistent pattern in your dating relationship?
  7. Jealousy, a sinful reaction when sharing your partner’s time with others. Do you have a hard time sharing your partner with others and allowing them to be a blessing?
  8. Outbursts of anger includes having no control over your anger which can translate into rash speech. Do you constantly have apologize for what you have said to your dating partner?
  9. Disputes, the root cause of which is selfish ambitions, i.e., a self seeking attitude. Are there disputes in your dating relationship?
  10. Dissensions, which means to stand apart or give someone a cold shoulder. An example of this can be shown when a dating couple has broken up and have a hard time being in the same room because of the pain. Can you see this being the direction of where your dating relationship can end?
  11. Factions, which is when a dating couple separates themselves from the church and can even refuse wise counsel. Are you in this kind of position?
  12. Envy, which is another self-centered attitude where one does not rejoice of the success of others. Are you like this in your dating relationship?
  13. Drunkenness, which is defined by excessive drinking. Do you get drunk from alcohol or are you filled with the Holy Spirit?
  14. Carousing, which is similar to partying/clubbing. Is this a characteristic of your dating relationship?

Remember that there are still many more that can reveal if your dating relationship can be of the flesh rather than of the Lord.

As we continue to verse 22 to describe a relationship that is honoring to God, let us start with the foundation. Galatians 5:14b says, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” This means that relationships are not about you. It is not about self-fulfillment and what you want from the relationship. It should start with the thought of “How can I serve my brother or sister in Christ in love?”

Now to fruits of the Spirit:

  1. Love: This act can be shown through the choice of loving others despite their actions, speech or even looks. This is unmerited love which Christ has shown to us when He came to die for us, sinners. Do you show your dating partner this Christ-like love?
  2. Joy: Are you joyful when you are together with your dating partner?
  3. Peace: This word is something deep that can be defined as “soul satisfaction,” or a completeness. Do you both find your peace in God and see Christ as all sufficient?
  4. Patience: Do you and your dating partner not lose heart in the face of trials/hardship and continue with kindness?
  5. Kindness: Do you desire to be a blessing to others? Could you say that you two are pleasant to be around?
  6. Goodness: Can you ask yourself truthfully if you care more for your partner’s good than your own? To be good is to treat others better than yourself. This should translate in treasuring other people’s time just as much as your own.
  7. Faithfulness: Are you reliable and can be counted on? Can you say that you conduct yourself in a way that will not be considered questionable?
  8. Gentleness: Are you gentle, not condescending and taking to account the feelings of others? A good example that was presented was when Jesus was ministering to the woman at the well (John 4:7-42). The woman was in sin, but Jesus patiently and lovingly served her, which caused her to joyfully spread the news of His existence & message.
  9. Self-Control: Are you driven by your emotions? Are you rash in your decision-making?

These questions which have been formed from these few verses (and do not limit yourself to just these) are great to understand where you might stand in your dating relationship.