Growing Pains: Maturity Mirages (Part 2)

by Kristen Lim

This article is a continuation on the Growing Pains series, a look at various topics that young Christians may encounter.

If you’ve been keeping up with this series so far, we’ve seen how maturity takes time as we utilize the means of grace God has given (reading Scripture, prayer, fellowship with other Christians, etc.) to grow in holiness and fight sin. He will surely be faithful to produce fruit in His children! But what exactly are we maturing towards? In short, spiritual maturation is becoming more like God (Ephesians 5:1). Rather than providing a survey of various marks of spiritual maturity (for that, I usher you to Peter Lim’s series entitled “Signs of Spiritual Maturity”), I wanted to point out two “maturity mirages,” or two misleading indicators of spiritual maturity. It is important that we are measuring spiritual maturity based on God’s standards and not on our opinions, so that we strive towards true Christ-likeness.

Maturity Mirage #1: Knowledge

There is a challenge where someone holds a burning match while reciting all the books of the Bible in order, and must complete the task before getting burned. As impressive as that sounds, it is not a sure mark of spiritual maturity. Maybe you have memorized a whole book of the Bible; you have read not one, but TWO systematic theology books; you can easily walk through the main points of the Gospel with Bible references for each key point; you can even spout out the right Bible verses for counseling situations.

All those things are not bad. In fact, it’s good and profitable to be well versed with Scripture and to understand your faith. But accumulated knowledge isn’t meant to just stay in the head. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 is a familiar passage to most: “All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.” The knowledge that is garnered through the careful study of God’s word does not stop at just knowing facts, but leads to good works.

Lest we forget that we are not saved by good works, Paul reminds us in Titus 3:1-8 that “[God] saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit.” On the basis of our firm foundation of faith in the mercy we have received through Jesus, the response is to be careful to engage in good deeds.

These good works don’t have to be super extravagant. It could simply be sharing one of God’s promises to a downcast sister or brother, cooking a meal for a sick family, or choosing to show grace and kindness to someone who made a hurtful comment to you. Perhaps the more difficult good deeds are the ones done in the quietness of your heart, for example, to seek unity and peace with a fellow member of the church after a conflict, since this truly tests your “knowledge” of God’s love towards you. A spiritually mature person not only grows in knowledge and deeper understanding of who God is, but applies that knowledge in good works and points others to glorify Him (Matthew 5:16).

Maturity Mirage #2: Giftedness

In our human nature, we find pride and identity in our talents, personalities, and status that may contain leverage to make us feel better than others. And we can also have a higher view of others that have certain desirable qualities and giftedness. This can be very subtle. We may deem eloquent people who can orate beautiful sentences filled with emotion, as more passionate for God than the soft-spoken stutterer who serves in the background. Or maybe it is the quieter person that is viewed as having more maturity in speech than the jovial jokester. Or even assuming that a married person is more spiritually mature than a single, just based on marital status.

I won’t go into every scenario or case-study, but the point is that many times we can be guilty of judging the spiritual maturity of ourselves or others based on God’s allotment of specific kinds of gifts. Public speakers, toilet-scrubbers, introverted personalities, the life of the party, married, unmarried; these are all different portions that God has wisely and purposefully given to His children, for their good and for His glory. The person given the flashy gifts isn’t necessarily more spiritually mature than the one who seems like they have “unimpressive” talents. 1 Corinthians 12:1-11 helps us understand that there are a variety of gifts, but the same God who sovereignly distributes gifts as He wills. And Romans 12:3-8 reaffirms the truth that “we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us” and “each of us is to exercise them accordingly.” One gift is not more valuable or more worthy of praise than another. And if a person has been given a “desirable” gift, it doesn’t elevate that person to be automatically more mature.

1 Peter 4:10-11 instructs Christians to employ the gifts God has given in order to serve one another as good stewards of the grace of God, “so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ.” A spiritually mature person not only recognizes his God-given talents, personalities, and gifts, but also understands that God is looking for faithfulness to exercise those gifts to make much of God.

Christ Must Increase

Having knowledge of the Bible and being gifted in certain ways does not necessarily make a person spiritually mature; it may even be a facade to cover spiritual immaturity. When God saves us, He also redeems our knowledge and gifts, so that the knowledge we obtain translates into good deeds, and gifts we have been blessed with are to be faithfully exercised to be of service to others. Hopefully it is apparent that spiritual maturity is less about how we can increase and build a resume of knowledge and gifts, but rather how God can use us to be a blessing to others. May we seek to grow in knowledge of God for more effectiveness in good works, and utilize our giftedness in faithfulness to God’s apportionment, so that Christ may increase, and we may decrease (John 3:30).

As One, In One

by Pastor Patrick Cho

2016 is well underway, and as is the custom at LBC San Diego, we have introduced a new theme for the year. The purpose of the annual themes has been to focus the church’s attention on a major spiritual truth that brings particular applicability for the church body or addresses a specific need. It has been our practice to establish these themes since 2000, but it has had particular significance for my life since 2011 when it became my task to decide the annual themes. In the past five years, the themes have been “Bound as One” (Eph. 4:1-6), “Dying to Know Him” (Phil. 3:7-8), “Making God Big” (2 Cor. 3:18), “One Thing I Do” (Phil. 3:13-14), and “The Gospel Wins” (Eph. 1:13-14; Rom. 8:28).

Our theme for 2016 is “As One, In One” from John 17:20-23. It is very similar to the theme of 2011 in its focus on the church’s unity, but this year it takes on a slightly different nuance to focus more on the unity of the church that is accomplished through our being brought into unity with Christ. Jesus prayed in John 17:21, “That they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in You, that they also may be in Us, so that the world may believe that You sent Me.” There is a lot packed into that verse and it gives the reader much to think upon. If you consider the weightiness of what Jesus is praying, “that they also may be in Us,” it is enough to fill your heart with joy and wonder for ages. Because of God’s grace to save us through the work of Christ on the cross, we have been granted entrance into a very deep and intimate relationship with the Triune God.

As believers, our unity, which is often illustrated and demonstrated through the practice of the variegated “one another” commands of Scripture, is rooted in our unity with God. This truth is equally humbling and wonderful when you consider that as sinners we were once estranged from God and self-proclaimed enemies of the truth. Because of Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross to pay the penalty for our sins, when we placed our faith in Jesus, God was willing to forgive our sins and bring us into fellowship with Him. Jesus reconciled us to the Father. The fact that we could be brought into this fellowship is alone incredibly amazing.

When I introduced this theme to the church family, I helped convey the significance of the unity of the church and how it reflects our unity with God.

1. Our Unity Serves as an Illustration of God’s Love.

God has placed us in the church so that we can grow in and show forth the love of God. As we have received the love of God, we can then reflect it out towards others so that they can see at least some sense of the greatness of God’s love through us (1 John 4:7-21). Since we have been brought into God’s love, this then becomes our motivation in everything involving the Christian life. The love of Christ compels the believer to greater godliness and supplies the heart with fuel towards joyful obedience (2 Cor. 5:14-15).

2. Our Unity Serves as a Picture of Christ’s Body.

God has placed us in the church to reflect the oneness of God and our unity in Him (Eph. 4:1-6; cf. John 17:20-23). One way we particularly demonstrate this is in our service in ministry. God has designed the church such that no individual member has been graced with every spiritual gift. He has made it so that all the members are interdependent. We are saved into the church and need one another in order to present a fuller picture of what it means to be in Christ (1 Cor. 12:12-13).

3. Our Unity Serves as a Catalyst for Spiritual Maturity.

God has placed us in the church so that we can mutually grow to maturity in Christ (Eph. 4:11-16). This spiritual maturity is not only brought about by the teaching ministry of spiritual leaders, though that is true (1 Cor. 3:6-7). He doesn’t only use the preaching of His Word, though that is true (Col. 1:28). The great means of promoting the growth of the whole body is through the exercise of each individual part. When the members of the church serve together in a picture unified worship, the whole body benefits.

4. Our Unity Serves as a Protection Against Personal Sin.

God has placed us in the church so that we can help each other in the fight against sin and the pursuit of holiness (Matt. 18:15-20). Church discipline strengthens the church and protects the churches unity. This may seem counter-cultural but it is true. When someone in the church falls into unrepentant sin, it threatens the unity of the church. The church is specifically called to remove members who would threaten, damage, or divide the church’s fellowship because of their unrepentant sin. In this sense, church discipline and communion are related ideas. Communion is a picture of the unity of the church, so the one who has been removed from the fellowship of the church through excommunication should not take communion with the church. One of the goals of church discipline is to call the sinner to repentance in order to restore them to fellowship because church discipline is about the unity of the church.

I’m so excited to unpack the theme of “As One, In One” in 2016. My hope is that it would help widen and deepen our understanding of the implications of the amazing gospel of grace for our lives. Hopefully it will cause us to see Christ more clearly and draw us to Him to a more intimate fellowship. May this theme fill our hearts with true worship and further strengthen the church.

Christian Cliches

“The great enemy of clear language is insincerity. When there is a gap between one’s real and one’s declared aims, one turns, as it were, instinctively to long words and exhausted idioms, like a cuttlefish squirting out ink.” (George Orwell)

by Stephen Rodgers

There is a longstanding tradition of using language to manipulate the ideological field of battle. Whether done to make bad ideas seem palpable or good ideas seem villainous, there is no shortage of linguistic maneuvers and shortcuts that undercut clear communication and obfuscate truth. If you’ve been around LBC long, you’ve probably heard me poke fun at what I often refer to either as “Christianese” or “Lighthouse Language.” I’ve seen veterans of my Bible studies take newcomers aside and sincerely warn them that I’m prone to asking them what they mean when they use theological terms. There’s a question on the Flocks Worksheet that even asks “How would you explain the sermon to a child?” and those who’ve been in my flock know that this question is not to be trifled with or glossed over, rather this particular question is serious business to be ignored at your peril.

Given that it’s an election year, I could springboard from that introduction into a very different sort of article, but for today, I’d rather focus on something of much more permanent value: cliches in Christian language that often either confuse clear theology, or even worse, introduce heterodox or even heretical ideas that take on orthodox trappings simply by dint of being oft-repeated.

While examples could be multiplied, GTY recently did a series of articles on some of these cliches, exploring what they proclaim vs. what the Bible actually declares. I commend them to you.

Pro Rege

Who Giveth Us Richly All Things To Enjoy

by Charles Haddon Spurgeon

1 Timothy 6:17

Our Lord Jesus is ever giving, and does not for a solitary instant withdraw His hand. As long as there is a vessel of grace not yet full to the brim, the oil shall not be stayed. He is a sun ever-shining; He is manna always falling round the camp; He is a rock in the desert, ever sending out streams of life from His smitten side; the rain of His grace is always dropping; the river of His bounty is ever-flowing, and the well-spring of His love is constantly overflowing. As the King can never die, so His grace can never fail. Daily we pluck His fruit, and daily His branches bend down to our hand with a fresh store of mercy. There are seven feast-days in His weeks, and as many as are the days, so many are the banquets in His years.

Who has ever returned from His door unblessed? Who has ever risen from His table unsatisfied, or from His bosom un-emparadised? His mercies are new every morning and fresh every evening. Who can know the number of His benefits, or recount the list of His bounties? Every sand which drops from the glass of time is but the tardy follower of a myriad of mercies. The wings of our hours are covered with the silver of His kindness, and with the yellow gold of His affection. The river of time bears from the mountains of eternity the golden sands of His favour. The countless stars are but as the standard bearers of a more innumerable host of blessings. Who can count the dust of the benefits which He bestows on Jacob, or tell the number of the fourth part of His mercies towards Israel? How shall my soul extol Him who daily loadeth us with benefits, and who crowneth us with loving-kindness?

O that my praise could be as ceaseless as His bounty! O miserable tongue, how canst thou be silent? Wake up, I pray thee, lest I call thee no more my glory, but my shame. ‘Awake, psaltery and harp: I myself will awake right early.’

5.16a

Weekly Links (2/19/2016)

“You can’t physically see the gospel; it’s simply truth. But when we encourage community that is obviously supernatural, it makes the gospel visible.” (Mark Dever & Jamie Dunlop, The Compelling Community: Where God’s Power Makes a Church Attractive)

by Cesar Vigil-Ruiz

Feliz Friday! Just another week of great links to pass on to you. So…here we go!

  • Elyse Fitzpatrick has written the well-known book (in biblical counseling circles) Idols of the Heart: Learning to Long for God Alone. If you haven’t delved into this book, but would like to get into knowing your heart, P&R Publishing created a devotional from the book that’s free for the taking. One application of this study can be found in the idol of education. This may be a very revealing study, so be prepared for what will be exposed.
  • In light of recent events on the UCSD campus regarding an exhibit depicting photos of aborted fetuses, a similar situation occurred at Purdue University, leading to Pastor Barry York’s thoughts (as a father) on what took place. Very thankful for his wise words.
  • What does it mean to pray “in Jesus’ name”? Pastor David Murray points out what Scripture says about this phrase.
  • Ever wonder why grumbling is a sin? Pastor Clint Archer starts off by explaining what the scope of grumbling condemned in Scripture is, and then gives the two types of complaining that Scripture addresses. Straightforward, so get ready to apply directly to the forehead.
  • Is there any benefit to listening to expository preaching? Pastor Derek Thomas gives six reasons this kind of preaching benefits the church body.
  • Michael Kruger continues to deal with common objections to Christianity, this time dealing with the claim by many that early Christianity was very diverse with the majority comprising of ‘heretics’ as early as the second century. He lays that one to rest.
  • In a previous Weekly Links post, I made mention of an annotated version of B.B. Warfield’s article on the Trinity. Professor Scott Swain, from RTS Orlando, contends with certain aspects of Warfield’s essay, from a lecture which you can watch and follow the brief outline provided by Justin Taylor.
  • Another commonly abused text of Scripture is Romans 10:13, which the Grace to You blog expounds upon.
  • The Los Angeles Bible Training School recently had their Men’s Conference, the audios of which have now been uploaded! Don’t miss out on being blessed from this!

That’s all for this week! See you all on Sunday!

Soli Deo Gloria

Lessons from Sparklers Ministry

by Henry Shieh

I remember telling my small group leader years ago that teaching was not something God has gifted me with and I did not intend to seek it. But now, I have been a teacher for the LBCSD Sparklers ministry for the past two years and I truly love this ministry. Some of the things I love to do in Sparklers ministry are preparing / teaching lessons, playing with the kids, and seeing them excited that their parents have come back to get them.

Somethings that God has been teaching me through this ministry are how to:

  • Make Disciples of Christ: I have the opportunity to come alongside their parents and teach them about God’s word and what it means to be a follower of Christ which includes encouraging and teaching them to make “wise-way” choices instead of “my-way choices.” It’s fun making disciples of Christ when you get to have fun with them through games and fun lessons. However, there is a responsibility for me to teach them about what sin is and that it leads to death. One of my first lessons taught was on Numbers 11 in which God sent fire down on the Israelites for grumbling against God. This was a difficult lesson to teach to three to five year-olds because of their limited understanding, but it is a necessary lesson to teach because the understanding of God’s call for us to be holy is such an important part of understanding our depravity and the need for Jesus’ sacrifice.
  • Love God and People: I have the opportunity to actively love God in studying His word and breaking it down in a way that three year-olds can understand it. I have opportunity to show love to the parents at church who have children in this ministry through telling them how their child was during their class. I have the opportunity to love the children when I get to laugh with them and comfort (or distract) them when they cry. I have the opportunity to show God’s love when I have to take them aside for disobeying and talk to them about their choice to obey or disobey God.
  • Hope in God through Prayer: Praying for my Sparklers has been one of my greatest joys as a teacher. We started praying for two Sparklers each Sunday based on prayer requests their parents have communicated to us (thanks Grace!). Some of these prayers I am able to see answered just by interacting with Sparklers once every couple of weeks. It’s been humbling and exciting to see God’s work at hand.

I’m truly thankful to be part of the Sparklers ministry because of the constant reminder of what it means to have childlike faith. I hope to be part of it for many years to come as long God allows me to stay in San Diego.

God Was, Is, and Always Will Be at Work for You to His Glory

by Pastor James Lee

2015 is past, so we’re well on our way in the New Year. Some of us, freshly resolved, have been enjoying our daily Bible reading or Scripture memorization which we gave up on too soon last time. Some of us have lost a couple pounds and feel the energy and hope ironically from sore muscles and more steps accrued on our pedometer. But for others, our goal to pray an hour each morning before work has hit a pothole, or our fitbit has become just another cool watch (?). Dear brethren, wherever you find yourself, persevere and endure and keep your focus on the Lord in humble affection. Charles Spurgeon once humorously quipped, “By perseverance the snail reached the ark.” Our discipleship is daily and hourly and moment by moment, and our God is actively at work in us. His promises remain true, so then, let your labor NOT be in vain. Passivity or discouragement is not faith, God-centered discipline is.

As one means of encouragement, I thought it might be helpful to meditate on God’s sovereign handiwork just looking back at 2015, even as we move forward in 2016. Perhaps part of our outlook for today at the office or our future in our ministries is disconnected from a functional theology that is distorted in practice from our profession? Let me say it another way. What we believe or don’t believe about God doesn’t change God, but what we believe or don’t believe about God changes us. And it would serve us well to cultivate a humbled gratitude for what the Lord has already sovereignly and graciously done… that God’s past faithfulness to us will spur us forward in faithfulness today.

It’s significant that the Word of God frequently exhorts us to “remember”, to recall, to remind ourselves of various truths, for our soul’s sake, for His Church’s sake, for His glory’s sake. Just the word “remember” occurs at least 168 times in one of our English translations of the Scriptures. God’s people were told to “remember His covenant” (Gen. 9:15-16), “remember” Israel’s former slavery in Egypt (Ex. 13:3), “remember all the way which the Lord your God has led you in the wilderness” (Deut. 8:2), and to remember how the Lord “remembered” Hannah. The psalmist sang, “I shall remember the deeds of the LORD. Surely I will remember Your wonders of old. I will mediate on all Your work and muse on Your deeds. Your way, God, is holy; What god is great like our God?” (Psalm 77:11-13) Isaiah recorded, “Remember this, and be assured; Recall it to mind, you transgressors. Remember the former things long past, for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is no one like Me. Declaring the end from the beginning, And from ancient times things which have not been done, Saying, ‘My purpose will be established, And I will accomplish all My good pleasure.” (Isaiah 46:8-10) Jesus warned, “Remember Lot’s wife” (Luke 17:32) as well as commanded, “Do this in remembrance of Me.” (Luke 22:19) Paul preached, “Remember the words of the Lord Jesus” (Acts 20:35) and “Remember that you were at that time separate from Christ.” (Eph 2:12) Therefore, it will edify us to meditate on God’s Fatherly handiwork in our own lives, or rather to mediate on it, accurately, humbly, and gratefully

We live in a culture that measures a company’s success based on measurable profit margins and stock prices, and are far less concerned about what goes on within that company internally and the direction it’s going. Those of us who are immersed in a homogenized suburban bubble might unknowingly refer to those “poor people” as a kind of separate “class”-ification, than viewing them as people just like us, equally made in God’s image, facing different circumstances. We’re tempted to impatience when our expectations for change in our world, in our church, in our spouse or children, and in other folks is coming too slow, in a different way, or seemingly not at all. We rightly don’t want “to waste our life”, be productive for the Lord, and be fruitful in doing His work. Nevertheless, we are prone to wander and we don’t always feel it. We must not say we are better, but that Christ is better by far.

Sinful comparisons to other people and other churches, discontentment of where God brought us and who God brought us, the greener grass conspiracy, the lies of instant fixes and popular shortcuts and reverse engineering of impactful ministries are the regular temptations and transgressions of God’s people. Stephen Altrogge asked, “How is it possible to be so blessed by God and so unhappy at the same time? To live like kings and behave like ungrateful pigs? To have more than any generation in history and yet still crave more?” We tend to focus on what we don’t have rather than on what we do have. We’re impatient. Sometimes we functionally think that God needs our wisdom and help and that our leaders need more of our great “suggestions” (or criticism) than our support, prayers, real solutions, and faithful co-labor. We give into the Devil’s deception and our own prideful arrogance that only we know better and could do better or that there is a better circumstance or better place or better ministry or better this or that, so we can always find something wrong wherever we go, rather than being a servant, rather than seeing what’s good, seeing how God loves the people and ministries we quickly size up. The spiritually short-sighted will always measure success like this world. They will never measure that against Moses 40 years of exile before being called or Sarah’s barrenness or Jeremiah’s zero converts or Elijah’s depression or our single brother Paul at the end of his life being abandoned by all in Asia or Isaiah executed or Tyndale’s decades suffering or Jim Elliot’s “early” death.

God never wastes anything! God is working even in our waiting! Some things take more time than we like. He is actively at work in my life and your life and in our church’s life, in ways we would not plan, in timings and paths we would not expect or desire or consider as valuable steps and blessed journeys and holy processes and loving preparations. Most people think of Romans 8:28 in the context of our trials, and we should. But that alone is insufficient. Romans 8:28-30 says, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified.” God works “some” things for good?! No, we’re told in v. 28 that God works “all” things for good! And what is the context? Our salvation, calling, justification, sanctification, glorification… so that we might be conformed to the image of His Son!

Let me remind us that in 2015, there was nothing wasted by God, nothing that wasn’t ordained and planned and purposed for our good and His glory. Our trials and victories, our internal conflicts and our reconciliations, our personal struggles and our finding God’s help in our time of need, our yet unanswered prayers and our answered prayers, our greater understanding and deepening of relationships. If we pray that God will open our spiritual eyes, we’ll see that the Lord has accomplished many wonderful things in our lives, “small” and “big” and everything in between, and they’re all gracious and undeserved and impactful. Not everything will meet our preconceived expectations or external standards, but that doesn’t mean profound and wonderful things weren’t accomplished.

At LBCOC, we established our singles ministry, welcomed new faces, witnessed to many non-believing friends, and helped people find churches, even if it led elsewhere. We’ve heard testimonies, and seen babies born and people grow, and watched a marriage proposal with every member there. We’ve seen folks willing to stretch themselves further than they ever did before, and our Alliance grow in its commitment to the MVP. We’ve seen reconciliation when conflict occurred. Without asking our facility, we were given a new larger room for Sunday worship service at an earlier time, both answers to longtime secret prayers of our leadership team. God is sovereign, and none of those things are accidents. I’ve been a Christian 30 years, and one thing I’ve learned and relearned from the Lord is that His timing and His ways are not the same as mine. And just because my expectations or yours aren’t met doesn’t mean God isn’t working and accomplishing everything, everything He intended. Abraham Lincoln once said, “Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.” God chose to take 80 years to mold a man named Moses before he led His people out of bondage in Egypt to the Promised Land. God promised the Savior-Seed, the Messiah, but glorified Himself in the millennia before Christ was finally sent. We eagerly await His return, we don’t know when… but He does. And it would be a mistaken attitude and outlook to think God isn’t doing anything right now… because of one expectation of His return not having come to pass. Yet, let me suggest that that is exactly what you and I sometimes do. We celebrate what happens up front, but not always what goes on behind the scenes. We value the produce of fresh peaches on a summer afternoon more than the work of labor to produce them or the faith of farmers who lost them in a storm. We admire the trellis, and we forget the beauty of the vine.

God delays for good reasons as does in answering right away, but He is always at work, always at work, perfectly and wisely. One reason is that we would know not just that God loves us, but how deeply God loves us. Robert Murray McCheyne said, “You will never find Jesus so precious as when the world is one vast howling wilderness. Then he is like a rose blooming in the midst of the desolation, a rock rising above the storm… Every wise workman takes his tools away from the work from time to time that they may be ground and sharpened; so does the only-wise Jehovah take his ministers oftentimes away into darkness and loneliness and trouble, that he may sharpen and prepare them for harder (and greater) work in his service.” Perhaps 2015 was a year of leanness and tough financial choices? Do you know that’s a blessing as much as having “more” might not always be the best thing at that time? Not having much can tempt us to be discouraged, but it can also teach us to be good stewards and force us to trust God… and not money. Affluenza is a spiritual disease, and we don’t need a rich relative who won the lottery, because our Father is infinitely rich, and He is providing and He will provide, as long as we seek first His kingdom and not our own.

In a small congregation’s life with limited manpower, losing members is always difficult, emotionally, financially, and physically. LBCOC had six precious church members transfer elsewhere, but we rejoice none of them left because they wanted to leave or because of conflict or because they were drawn to something better down the street. Because for them serving Christ, not serving self, was always at stake. And we rejoice because now they’re all active members at their new churches within a few months and that they keep in touch and are a blessing to their new churches. That’s God’s blessing us all! And He’s brought some new people, everyone we love so much! We’ve had non-Christians come and ask questions and become our regular friends. We’ve been able to encourage many visitors because they let us know that in emails even when it was their only visit. Those “small things” are really quite big! Kent Hughes says success is serving, loving, believing, praying, holiness, attitude, and faithfulness. Why? Because that’s how God defines success… and it’s not necessarily bodies, bucks, and buildings. Hughes encourages, “Think of what it would mean if we were faithful, living in profound obedience to God’s Word and working long and hard at our tasks; serving with a foot-washing heart; loving God with all our heart, soul, and might; believing what we believe; praying with the dependence and passion of Christ; living pure holy lives in this sensual world; manifesting a positive, supportive attitude in the midst of difficulties! If that is mediocrity, then give us more this blessed mediocrity – for it is success!”

Jonathan Leeman wrote:

“There’s a temptation I have noticed that you and I are susceptible to: we can love our vision of what a church should be more than we love the people who comprise it. We can be like the unmarried man who loves the idea of a wife, but who marries a real woman and finds it harder to love her than the idea of her. Or like the mother who loves her dream of the perfect daughter more than the daughter herself. We start loving the idea of a healthy church more than the church God has placed us in. When Christ died for the church, he made it his own. He identified it with himself. He put his name on it. That’s why persecuting the church is persecuting Christ (Acts 9:5), and why sinning against an individual Christian is sinning against Christ (1 Cor. 8:12; cf. 6:15). Individually and corporately, we represent him. Think about what that means. It means that Christ has put his name on immature Christians, and Christians who speak too much at members’ meetings, and Christians who wrongly give their unbaptized children communion, and Christians who love shallow praise songs. Christ has identified himself with Christians whose theology is underdeveloped and imperfect. Christ points to the Christians who wrongly oppose biblical leadership structures and the practice of church discipline and says, “They represent me. Sin against them and you sin against me!” How wide, long, high, and deep Christ’s love is! It covers a multitude of sins and embraces the sinner… If you love your children, you want them to be healthy. But if you love your children, you love them whether they are healthy or not.”

The typical mindset among professing believers is aptly described by the real high-gloss magazine article titled, “223 Ways to be Happier and Get What You Want, Without Doing Any Work.” God blesses those who are faithful, and you and I might not always see that, or be thankful for that, but He’s graciously working for us anyway to His glory. Even as we should regularly and rightly reevaluate ourselves and our ministries, remember that He measures productivity very differently than us. He’s always mercifully and lovingly and powerfully at work in our lives, sovereignly in our sanctification. He’s making us more ready for something greater than we might plan, or in ways that is greater in His eyes than we envision. I don’t know what exactly, or how or when, but I trust and believe He is doing it and He will do it. Paul planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. The greater the task and reward, often the greater and longer the preparation. Robert C. Chapman challenged, “If we act only because our path is clear of difficulty, this is not Faith. Faith acts upon God’s Word whatever the difficulty, and to walk by faith brings highest glory to God.”

Let’s continue to walk by faith, not by sight. The Christian life is not a sprint, it’s a marathon. It’s a seed not quickly sprouting, it’s life in Christ deeply rooted. It’s not drawing a line in the sand for which we refuse to give God our entire life, it’s denying oneself daily no matter the earthly prospect or valuation. It’s the joy of being His forever… even today. God was, is, and always at work for you to His glory. Be encouraged and fight the good fight of faith!

LBCSD SPARK – February 13, 2016

by Pastor Patrick Cho

Dear LBCSD family and friends!

I hope you are doing well and walking in the Lord! This past Sunday, I was pleased to announce the annual theme for 2016 – As One, In One (John 17:20-23). The focus of the theme is our unity in Christ and its implications on our unity as believers in Christ. As the church body continues to grow, I believe it will become more and more vital to the life of the church to be brought back to this prevalent idea in the New Testament. I’m really looking forward to an awesome 2016! Let’s pray that God would work through the Word preached to build up the body.

In His grace,

Pastor Patrick

Here are some ministry opportunities for your consideration!

  1. Sunday. This Sunday, we will be picking up in our study through Titus, looking at Titus 3:3. The title for the sermon is “Your Brain on Sin,” which is a homage to the anti-drug commercials of the 80’s.
  2. College Retreat. Please be in prayer for the college ministry as they enjoy their weekend retreat at Pine Valley Bible Conference Center. Pastor Scott Ardavanis is their speaker this weekend!
  3. Elders Q&A. Instead of our regular Sunday School classes, we will be having a special time of Q&A with the elders of LBCSD during second hour! This is a great way to get to know the leaders of the church.
  4. Midweek Bible Studies. All our regular midweek Bible studies will be meeting next week. Single Life – The post-college singles meet on Wednesday at 6:30pm. Grace Life – The Grace Life MEN will be meeting on Thursday at 6:30pm. LKC – Kids Club will be meeting on Thursday at 6:30pm. Lumos – Next week, the youth ministry will be meeting on Friday at 6pm. College Life – The collegians will be meeting on Friday at 7pm.
  5. Women’s Mission Bowl. Congratulations to the men’s flag football team on a valiant effort at last week’s tournament. The women will have their tournament on Saturday, February 20, beginning at around 12pm at Hourglass Park by Miramar College. Come out and support our gals as they seek to bring home the trophy!
  6. Parent/Child Dedication. The last day to signup for the Parent/Child Dedication service is this Sunday, February 14. The parent/child dedication will be on the following Sunday during the morning service. Please contact Pastor Patrick if you are interested (pastorpatrick@gmail.com).
  7. LBCLA Anniversary Service. LBCLA will be celebrating the ministry’s anniversary on Sunday, February 28. Their morning speaker will be Dr. Irv Busenitz of The Master’s Seminary. In the evening, they will be having a special service featuring The Master’s College Chorale, led by Dr. Paul Plew. Dinner will also be provided. Everyone is invited to join in the celebration! If you would like to attend the Sunday evening service, please RSVP through the sign up sheet in the foyer on Sunday.
  8. Single Life Retreat. The singles ministry will be having their annual retreat on March 4-6 up at Pine Valley Bible Conference Center. The speaker this year is Pastor Kurt Gebhards, who used to serve on staff at Grace Community Church and is now in Chicago. You won’t want to miss this awesome time together! Signups are currently being taken through Single Life.
  9. Membership Class. The next membership class will be on the second weekend of March. This is a two-part class and attendance is mandatory at both classes. Part 1 will be on Saturday, March 12, from 9am-12pm. Part 2 will be on Sunday, March 13, from 2-5pm. Please email Pastor Patrick for an application or if you have any questions (pastorpatrick@gmail.com).